Is it I? A book for every man.Storer, Horatio Robinson
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Is it I? A book for every man.
Storer, Horatio Robinson
Sexual ethics
Political economists, almost without exception, have inveighed
against an early entrance into wedlock. I could give much evidence
upon this point, were it necessary. They base their reasonings upon
several assumptions, which are almost purely such. In some ancient
states, as Sparta, it was by law forbidden to men to marry under the
age of thirty. “And in this,” says Acton, “as in many other matters,
Lycurgus, the old lawgiver, showed his wisdom.”[27] In some modern
states, also, a time has been fixed, as twenty-five years, until
which men must remain celibate.
These restrictions have frequently been established for the purpose
of keeping alive a martial spirit. When a people are permitted to
follow the dictates of their own hearts, they are apt to anchor
themselves at home, tied down by the innumerable cords of affection
and pecuniary necessity or advantage. If this is prevented, the youth
remains for a certain number of years at the service of the state,
is taught that first of all lessons of life, obedience, without a
knowledge of which no man can himself come to rule; he is supposed
less likely to form a hasty or injudicious conjugal alliance, and
from having been sent hither or thither across the world at the
command of his superior, to be finally more anxious to settle
permanently down as a private citizen.
Again, in most countries, whether young or old, there is a tendency,
exaggerated, no doubt, in many instances, to become overstocked by
the human race; and theorists and lawgivers vie with each other in
their efforts to keep down the population. Not only is it thought
that by preventing the young from marriage, a direct check is thus
given, but that when that condition is entered at a more advanced
time of life, the man has become sobered by age, and what is
technically called “more prudent.”
Many suppose that the children of persons in the prime of life are
more likely to be sound in body and in mind than the offspring of
earlier years,—a result that does not necessarily occur,—while
others, among whom Mr. Acton, more or less distinctly denying the
benefit of marriage as a sanitary measure, add to the above arguments
a still more untenable one, that perfect continence is the only wise
and true measure of life. “Marriage,” he says, “is not the panacea of
all earthly woes, or the sole correction of all early vices. It often
interferes with work and success in life, and its only result is that
the poor man (poor in a pecuniary point of view) never reaches the
bodily health or social happiness he might otherwise have reasonably
expected. Under the age of twenty-five I have no scruple in enjoining
perfect continence. The sighing, lackadaisical boy should be bidden
to work and win his wife before he can hope to taste any of the
happiness or benefits of married life.”[28]
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