Is it I? A book for every man.Storer, Horatio Robinson
Science
Is it I? A book for every man.
Storer, Horatio Robinson
Sexual ethics
The rights of the husband regarding his wife, I have said, are
usually considered total and indisputable. Till now they have seldom
been challenged; certainly seldom of men by a man. In listening, as I
have done, to the plaints of women, I have neither eavesdropped nor
suggested. In presenting them now after these years of comparison and
cross-examination, it is with no quixotic feeling of championship,
but solely with the desire of an earnest physician to assuage
physical and mental pains, very real though often uncomplained of and
unappreciated, to carry comfort to hearts disappointed and well nigh
broken, to check abuses whose authors may not have recognized them as
such, and to evoke a higher manliness than is our usual wont, as men,
to exhibit.
What, then, do we usually claim? All that the law, and still more
tyrannical custom, grants to us, in our wives; all that they have,
and all that they are, in person and in very life. And here let
me say, that I intend taking no ultra ground; that I am neither a
fanatic nor professed philanthrope; and that in loosing, as I hope
to do, some of woman’s present chains, it is solely for professional
purposes, to increase her health, prolong her life, extend the
benefits she confers upon society—in a word, selfishly to enhance
her value to ourselves; and yet there is somewhat in this effort, as
I believe there is also in the hearts of all those who will peruse
it, of gratitude to her for the love with which she has solaced us,
as mother, and sister, and wife, and daughter,—all of which I have
myself possessed; unhappy he who has not. Give to her, then, the
serious consideration due from every man “born of woman’s agony,”
the depth and measure of which but few of us ever really know. I am
no advocate for unwomanly women; I would not transplant them, from
their proper and God-given sphere, to the pulpit, the forum, or the
cares of state, nor would I repeat the experiment, so patiently
tried by myself, and at last so emphatically condemned[32]—of
females attempting the practice of the medical profession. I would
undoubtedly open to single women every legitimate avenue to an
honorable self-support, and thus keep them from many of the pitfalls
which so closely environ them, and by causing for the married woman
more or greater occasion to respect her husband, I would redouble for
him her affection. These are some of my claims to be heard, and they
are weighty ones in truth.
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