Is it I? A book for every man.Storer, Horatio Robinson
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Is it I? A book for every man.
Storer, Horatio Robinson
Sexual ethics
Dr. Storer says, if women would avoid consequences, they must make
choice of time; but in the goodness and generosity of his heart, he
fails to see that no choice is allowed them in many cases. They are
not independent, but subject; and all teaching tends to keep them
so. Here is just where the trouble begins. This is why they rebel.
Save themselves from the _cause_ they cannot. The consequence is
mainly within their power, and the temptation is strong to throw off
the bond which confines them to the fireside. Domestic and maternal
duties and joys, in moderate degree, make women nobler and better;
but do not for a moment imagine that an almost absolute imprisonment
at home, for ten years or more, as is common, with finances ranging
as they ordinarily do, can tend to make wives more intelligent, more
companionable, more Christian, _or more happy_. It may be duty, but
of the stamp unmingled with joy.
It is noticeable that happy wives, strong in the affectionate regard
of considerate husbands, rarely attempt this violence. There is but
one stronger element known to society than that of a true woman’s
love for a worthy husband; one who is careful for her comfort and her
preferences. It is generally admitted that women are not more selfish
than men; that they are as ready to sacrifice comfort, to yield to
inconvenience, as quick to appreciate consideration and to requite
it, as men. Let such a woman, be she ever so slight and fragile,
ever so much averse to motherhood, let her but be convinced that her
husband would be happier with little voices singing in his home,
and let him sustain her, and _pity her_, and she will bear it all,
even to the end, cheerfully. No complaints will be heard, and the
influence of that household will be pure.
Do not accuse me of justifying abortion, or of seeking to lay blame
upon innocent shoulders. Abortion is a crime, and women are guilty of
it, but they sin not alone. While attention is being called to the
fact, why not also to the cause? Wives’ burdens are too heavy, as
blanched cheeks and early graves continually testify,—and the more
intelligent they are, the more they recoil in disgust from the life
they are led; for, mark it, it is not the ignorant class who are
guilty of procuring abortion.
But what shall we say for the unhappy, unfortunate women, by no means
few or inferior, who are victims of selfish and gross husbands, who
are allowed no choice of time or convenience, whose hearts ache with
disappointment and degradation, who find the heaviest burdens of life
heaped upon them without feeling, who go almost into the shadow of
death, and yet return to make the pilgrimage again and again—what
shall we say for them, if they do, in their desperation, find an
escape from the consequences of what was unwillingly forced upon
them? Will the Father of the sorrowful have no mercy on them? Surely
they are in evil case, and their numbers are manifold. Thank God,
there are yet some royal souls true to principle.
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