Is it I? A book for every man.Storer, Horatio Robinson
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Is it I? A book for every man.
Storer, Horatio Robinson
Sexual ethics
The true and _greatest_ cause of abortion is one hidden from the
world, viz., unhappiness and want of consideration towards wives
in the marriage relation, the more refined education of girls,
and their subsequent revolting from the degradation of being a
mere thing—an appendage. All the world knows that in this “age of
progress” marriage is too often corrupted from a sanctuary of love
and purity, to a convenience for revelling and grossness. Many is
the intellectual, spiritual woman bound to such a condition, which
she will not, for pride’s sake, or honor’s sake, report. Stung by
disappointment, she rebels, and is perhaps told that marital rights
are ordained of society and Heaven, and that she, knowing it,
should not have come within their power. A very common argument,
true within limits; but power does not necessarily imply right of
abuse. She is, perhaps, on the way to motherhood, and with her
feeble strength, depressed spirits, and waning ambition and courage,
she needs sympathy, comfort, and encouragement. Surely her burden
is heavy enough. But if she grieves or complains, she is perhaps
confronted with the assertion that it is what she is made for; and
with bitterness of heart and sorrow of soul, looking down through
long weeks of heart-sickness and physical pain and unrest, to the
dreaded, unknown crisis, to the after years of care, labor, and
anxiety, and all to bear without hearty sympathy, what wonder that
she is in despair, and little cares whether she live or die? Yet
she must smile, and be cheerful to the world, and it never guesses
all is not right at home. This is not fancy (would it were!), but
veritable, everyday life. If she learns a way of escape, what
wonder that she count herself happy to be rid of, not so much
the pledge of a husband’s love, as of his selfishness, that has
haunted her life! What wonder if she for a time forget her moral
obligations in her extremity, and is indifferent to the life which
is no longer a blessing! Remonstrance is met at home, perhaps with
inattention, perhaps with blame. Remonstrance abroad is forbidden.
Whither shall she turn? What is left but to bury her grief in her
own heart, and live on as best she may? Deal tenderly with these
stricken ones. Condemn them not utterly, for though they sin, they
are sinned against. Don’t load them with all the guilt, for they are
already overborne. Not that sin in one excuses sin in another, but
it is harder to walk with a mountain in our way, than in a smooth,
well-beaten path.
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