Jewels and the woman: The romance, magic and art of feminine adornmentOstier, Marianne
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Jewels and the woman: The romance, magic and art of feminine adornment
Ostier, Marianne
Jewelry
The groom in similar fashion, and with the same engraving, makes his
gifts to the best man and the ushers. In gold, he may choose tie pins
and clips, cuff links, money clips, key chains, toothpicks. Pencils and
fountain pens are appropriate, or silver letter-openers, with the box or
the article bearing the signs of the occasion.
_Other Gifts to the Bride_
In addition to any more substantial contribution to the hopes and
happiness of the newlyweds, the parents of the groom should give their
daughter-in-law-elect a gift that she will wear on her wedding day. This
will usually take the form of a brooch or clip. A flower design is always
appropriate; more playfully accordant is a clip of a four-leaf clover or
of bells, in diamonds.
Perhaps the most touching among the wedding gifts is that which comes to
the bride from the grandmother. In many cases, it will be a jewel that
grandmother wore on her own wedding day; it is thus not only a precious
but a tender link that helps bind the family through the generations.
_Parents’ Days_
When time comes around for Mother’s Day, then Father’s Day, we realize
that all through the year our parents’ love reaches out to us and
deserves our grateful thoughts. Every day is a day to honor one’s
parents. They have shown us that love is the one gift one need not earn.
“Home,” says the poet, “is the place where, when you have to go there,
they have to take you in.”
But on the special day set aside for Mother, children may combine to
give her a bracelet on which charms commemorate happy family times,
or list the names of children, grandchildren, and—if the years are
generous—great-grandchildren. A tree of life, a family tree, or various
brooches, make excellent gifts.
Gifts for Father are likely to be simpler. Gold cuff links suggest
themselves, shaped in his initials. A gold pencil or pen, a key ring,
or—if it does not seem too much like a hint!—a money clip, may all be
appropriately inscribed, as a tribute to the person commonly called the
head of the family.
_For Later Birthdays_
Birthday presents become more complicated, and longer cherished, after
childhood. The older one grows—in spite of the jesting about beginning to
count backwards—the more one should have absorbed of the wisdom of life,
and the more endeared one should be to friends and family.
For one’s wife, one may add a tender touch to a bracelet or other jewel,
by a secret message others will not guess. Thus the first letters of four
stones set in this order—diamond, emerald, amethyst, ruby—spell _Dear_.
One can form an alphabet of stones from which many hidden messages can be
conveyed to the loved one alone.
For a man, a beautiful birthday gift is a ring with a star ruby, a star
sapphire, or a cat’s-eye, set in simple heavy metal, gold, platinum
or palladium. A plain gold signet ring is in good taste, or one with
initials sculptured of the metal.
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