Jewels and the woman: The romance, magic and art of feminine adornmentOstier, Marianne
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Jewels and the woman: The romance, magic and art of feminine adornment
Ostier, Marianne
Jewelry
Remember, in buying a ring for a man, that it should be solid; for a big
man, quite a heavy band. A man pays little attention to his jewelry, once
he has put it on, and gives it the hardest wear. He keeps on his ring,
for example, while driving his car, swinging through a round of golf,
even performing a quick repair job in the house or working through some
“do it yourself” mechanics.
_Gifts For the Man_
Whatever a man needs, he probably has. Most gifts to men, therefore, such
as cuff links, provide them with another jewel of a kind they already
possess. This should be no deterrent, however, for what a man prizes is
less the gift itself than the feeling that inspired it.
I will venture the suggestion that man is the sentimental sex. If there
is evidence of thoughtfulness behind the gift, he will doubly cherish it.
Those cuff links, for example, can be chosen in a pattern that suggests
one of his special interests or brings memories of some incident shared
only by his wife.
_The Wife’s Role_
Every business and professional man is aware of the importance of proper
appearance. Many, however, do not have the time a woman has to shop and
weigh and consider. Some, indeed, would not think it becoming in a man
to spend much time seeking items for his personal embellishment. Yet he
likes to be well dressed and is naturally pleased when his good taste in
accessories is admired.
It is thus often the wife’s role to see that her husband is fitly
equipped. No well groomed man overlooks the place of jewelry in his
dress, but his choice is likely to be quick, almost slap-bang. It is a
further sign of her love that the wife takes it upon herself to make
meticulous choices for him. It is as important for a man to wear the
right jewelry as it is to wear a clean, well-fitting shirt.
_The Right Accessories_
However elegant a man’s wristwatch, there is, for formal occasions,
greater distinction in a thin pocket watch. With a fraternity key, a
pocket watch and chain are also appropriate, or else a key ring and chain.
Tie clips and money clips may be secured in many varieties.
A superb and truly masculine pair of cuff links can be fashioned of
twenty-four carat gold nuggets. Although not shiny, they have an
unmistakably precious look; and, as a gift, they capture the genuineness
of the feeling in the purest of gold.
_The Personal Touch_
A wise and thoughtful—not to say loving—woman will add a personal
touch that marks the gift as something intimately shared. A few words
engraved on the gift, a date significant in the two lives—it may be the
anniversary of their first meeting—add a special significance that makes
the gift a treasure.
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