John Bull's Womankind (Les Filles de John Bull)O'Rell, Max
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John Bull's Womankind (Les Filles de John Bull)
O'Rell, Max
England -- Social life and customs; Women -- Great Britain
It is quite right that the old maid should be respected, when she
consents to remain an obscure heroine, and to devote to doing good the
energies that it is not her lot to be able to devote to the sacred
duties of a wife and mother; let her be tolerated when she pounces
upon her fellow-creatures, in their houses, in omnibuses, and in
trains, to try to convert them; let her be pitied, when she is reduced
to the necessity of wasting her treasures of love on her cat and her
parrot. But when she talks of devoting her spare energies to striking
terror into the breast of man, it is high time that some Member of
Parliament should see if there is no possibility of passing a bill
through the House (before she gets in) to dispose of her, as widows
are disposed of in Malabar.
XI.
Women at Home--Daughters, Wives, Widows, and Mothers--Comparisons--The
Hospitality of Mrs. John Bull--Provincial Life.
The young girl is the heroine of English society. Free and accessible,
she is more attractive as a woman, but perhaps less tempting as a
future wife, than the timid and sweet young French girl.
She walks out alone, travels alone, and gives you a shake of the hand
that is enough to put your shoulder-blade out of joint.
Her favourite occupations are walking and riding, and the game of
lawn-tennis, which develops her form and her taste for flirtation. She
carries her head erect, her shoulders square, and, as you look at the
pump-handle swing of her arms, you feel that if occasion required, she
would be able to defend herself and give the man, who treated her with
disrespect, a sound box on the ears.
Her frank and fearless bearing is her surest protection: it is the
bearing of confidence and security.
The young married woman is much more fascinating in France than in
England.
The Frenchwoman gains her liberty when she marries, the Englishwoman
loses hers. The latter becomes a minor for the rest of her days, from
the moment she has pronounced the fatal _I will_. The former is, on
the contrary, emancipated by these magic words.
If the Frenchwoman has her own way in the household, she has very
often richly earned it. It is, unfortunately, not rare to see parents
offer to their child, as a companion of her joys and sorrows, a man of
forty, bald and unwieldy, who, after having run through health,
fortune, and all the romance he ever had about him, is willing to
bestow the rest upon her in exchange for her dot, her youth, her
beauty, and her virtues. It is a fact, though a sad one, that the
husband a French mother most ardently desires for her daughter, is a
staid, serious man, a man of experience, a notary, for instance. The
notary is quoted very high in the French matrimonial market.
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