John Bull's Womankind (Les Filles de John Bull)O'Rell, Max
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John Bull's Womankind (Les Filles de John Bull)
O'Rell, Max
England -- Social life and customs; Women -- Great Britain
Here is a great social problem that I should not care to undertake to
solve. However, from the few observations that I have made, it seems
to me that many English farmers have not to seek very far to find the
cause of their want of success.
The farmer's wife of other days was a worthy unpretentious woman, who
looked to everything connected with the farm, rose at five in the
morning, superintended the servants, did her own dairy work, and did
not even disdain to feed the pigs. The farmer's wife of the present
day is often a lady who, under pretext of not being able to pay
frequent visits to her friends, keeps open house and does the honours
of the farm with a grace and liberality worthy of the princely
hospitality of an English country-seat. She rises at nine, or has her
breakfast taken to her bedside; she has horses and carriages, ponies
for the children, wagonettes for pleasure parties, all the
accoutrements of an English nobleman's house. Her time is passed in
picnics, drives, visits, and receptions. She aims at keeping pace with
the squire's wife, but has this difficulty to contend with, that
whereas the squire takes up his rents whether farming be paying or
not, the farmer must pay them, let the year be a good or a bad one.
The tradesmen's wives outshine the women of the upper classes in the
luxury of their toilette. They are caricatures loaded with chains,
necklets, lockets, long earrings and feathers, as many as they can
carry. These ladies must be impatiently awaiting the day when liberty
or fashion will allow them to wear two hats at once, and rings in
their noses. These walking feather-brooms form a curious contrast with
the pretty little Princesse bonnets and simple attire of the English
ladies of good society.
My conscience almost reproaches me for having found fault with the
kind of existence led by many farmers' wives, for I think I may safely
affirm that to their hospitality I owe the most delightful hours of
_jucunda oblivia vitæ_ that I have ever passed in my life. O
conscience!
* * * * *
Just as extensive and varied as are the possessions of John Bull,
Esquire, just so restricted is the domain of his wife.
When she has given her husband her heart and its few little
dependencies, her assets are reduced to the incontestable qualities
with which nature, as a generous mother, has gifted her. It is true
that since the passing of the Married Women's Property Act, she has a
right to possess property; but if she sets the least store by her
peace of mind and the tranquillity of the household, she quickly gives
up to her husband the rights which he considers as already his own in
his quality of husband. You see, he takes a wife _for better, for
worse_, and if he is no fool, he manages that it shall be for better.
It is very simple.
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