“_It is worth while to collect cartoons and cuttings from the ‘Daily
Mirror,’ ‘Punch,’ and other papers, and to look through them when the
dumps try to dominate._”
Laughing and smiling can come under muscular control, no less than
walking and sitting--no less than frowning and grumbling. We can tense
or relax muscles. We can equally easily laugh or smile. And the mere
muscular action will help the mind and the feelings to be free from
non-happiness.
There are, of course, wrong kinds of laughter and smiling. I read a
book devoted almost entirely to the abuse of laughter and smiling. But
the right kinds are as valuable as they are rare.
Several people that I know have the supreme art of making troubles
almost blessings by catching at once the ludicrous aspect--going round
to the other side and seeing things from a different approach. And
sometimes, entering into the trouble by the Gate of Humour, they find
that the trouble is not a torture-chamber but a factory of Success and
Happiness.
The right laugh and smile is an expression of real Faith; and, as
we have seen, the expression, if persevered in, tends to bring the
reality.
The Power of Imagination
And keep happy by Imagination. How exhilarating it is to imagine
oneself succeeding in one’s favourite game, or in one’s business or art
or hobby. Such imagination is far better than the memory of defeats,
except in so far as the latter helps us to correct our faults.
The Power of Expression
Then there is the Art of Expression, advocated by Delsarte and William
James. The latter, in his “Talks on Psychology,” may not be strictly
accurate and scientific, but at any rate he is practically useful, when
he says:
“_If we only check a cowardly impulse in time--for example, or if
we only don’t strike the blow or rip out with the complaining or
insulting word that we shall regret as long as we live--our feelings
themselves will presently be the calmer and better, with no particular
guidance from us on their own account. Action seems to follow feeling,
but really action and feeling go together; and by regulating the
action, which is under the more direct control of the will, we can
indirectly regulate the feeling, which is not._
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