Artists -- Fiction; England -- Social life and customs -- 19th century -- Fiction; London (England) -- Fiction
This first successful stroke, which Geoff perhaps unduly appreciated
(but any thing in which his mother was involved had great weight with
him), originated by Margaret and carried out by her aid, had great
effect on Geoffrey Ludlow, and brought the woman whom he had married
before him in quite a new light. The phrase "the woman he had married"
is purposely chosen, because the fact of having a wife, in its largest
and most legitimate sense, had not yet dawned upon him. We read in
works of fiction of how men weigh and balance before committing
matrimony,--carefully calculate this recommendation, calmly dissect
that defect; we have essay-writers, political economists, and others,
who are good enough to explain these calculations, and to show us
why it ought to be, and how it is to be done; but, spite of certain
of my brother-fictionists and these last-named social teachers, I
maintain that, in ninety-nine cases out of a hundred, a man who is a
man, "with blood, bones, passion, marrow, feeling," as Byron says,
marries a girl because he is smitten with the charms either of her
person or her manner--because there is something _simpatico_, as the
Italians call it, between them--because he is "in love with her," as
the good old English phrase runs; but without having paid any thing
but the most cursory attention to her disposition and idiosyncrasy.
Is it so, or is it not? Such a state of things leads, I am perfectly
aware, to the acceptance of stone for bread and scorpions for fish;
but it exists, hath existed, and will continue to exist. Brown now
helplessly acknowledges Mrs. B.'s "devil of a temper;" but even if he
had had proof positive of it, he would have laughed it away merrily
enough that summer at Margate, when Mrs. B. was Emily Clark, and he was
under the thrall of her black eyes. Jones suffers under his wife's "low
fits," and Robinson under Mrs. Robinson's religion, which she takes
very hot and strong, with a great deal of groaning and anathematising;
but though these peculiarities of both ladies might have been learned
"on application" to any of the various swains who had been rejected
by them, no inquiry was ever made by the more fortunate men who took
them honestly on trust, and on account of their visible personal
attractions: And though these instances seem drawn from a lower class
of life, I contend that the axiom holds good in all states of society,
save, of course, in the case of purely mercenary marriages, which,
however, are by no means so common in occurrence, or at all events so
fatal in their results, as many of our novel-writers wish us to believe.
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