Girls -- Conduct of life -- Juvenile fiction; Gossip -- Juvenile fiction
Well, I wasn't of mother's way of thinking about talk, for I did like
to hear my own voice. Most girls do, I suppose; and it's only
natural. But still I might have spared myself many a bother in life,
if I had not been so ready with my tongue.
For, after all, the main part of the good and evil that we do in our
lives is done with the tongue. Is not that what the Bible means, when
it says that the man who can bridle his tongue is a perfect man?
I suppose that is the hardest part of what we have to do. Mother must
have come near to being a perfect woman, for the control she had over
her tongue was something wonderful.
Father liked well enough to talk on occasion, but he was never
a mischief-maker, and his tongue was not given to wagging
ill-naturedly. Father was one of the kindest of men. I never saw him
really out of temper in his life; and that's more than many children
can say of their fathers. He was a thoughtful man, and he read
a deal; and when he could get a sensible listener, he liked to talk
about what he had read.
I am afraid I wasn't much of a listener, for I loved best to talk
myself. Mother was always trying to check me; not harshly, but in the
way of giving advice, "Waste of breath, Kitty, my dear," she'd say.
"Keep your breath to cool your porridge." "Mind you, it's 'least
said, soonest mended,' in the long run." "What's said can never be
unsaid." And often she'd add— "We've got to give an account,
by-and-by, of every idle word we speak. Every single idle word!"
But I don't think I paid heed to what she said. Young folks don't?
Everybody has to learn out of his own experience, mostly; for
experience can't be passed on from one to another like a sixpence.
Perhaps mother pushed things a little too far. She saw the evil
of careless talk, and she got to have almost a dread of any talk
at all. After all, the power of talking is a gift, and it ought to be
rightly used, not left to rust. We have influence over others
by means of our talk, and we have to see that the influence isn't
cast away, nor made to pull in the wrong direction.
I have spoken of neighbours, though there were no neighbours quite
close to us. The nearest row of cottages was three minutes off, round
the corner of the road that led from the station to the village.
Beyond them came shops and a few other houses. Claxton was a small
place, very scattered, and the railway-station was small too.
My father was the station-master. A good many trains passed, but not
many stopped.
Father had a cottage almost close to the line, and our garden was
very gay. Flowers did so well with us—I don't know why, unless it was
the soil, and his tending.
I was not an over-indulged child, like many only-children. My father
and mother would not let me have my own way wrongly, and I was always
made to obey. That's something to be thankful for. Half the misery
of many grown-up people comes from their never having learnt
to submit in childhood.
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