Letters from Palestine: Written during a residence there in the years 1836, 7 and 8Paxton, J. D. (John D.)
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Letters from Palestine: Written during a residence there in the years 1836, 7 and 8
Paxton, J. D. (John D.)
Palestine -- Description and travel
I have attended, by special request, an Arab wedding, the parties
being members of the Greek church. The men and women were in
separate apartments. In both rooms there was music from a rude drum,
and the women kept up a singular hallooing, or kind of shrill cry.
I was taken into the female apartment, and introduced to the bride.
She was much adorned with gold and gold foil, her face and hands
painted in the most fantastic manner; she kept her eyes closed, or
nearly so, which she must do for several days. They made her put on
cob-cobs, a kind of sandal nearly a foot high, and dance before us,
or rather walk very slowly backwards and forwards, keeping time
with the music; her hands were held up by an attendant, to be seen
and admired. They then took her into another room to eat, after
which the marriage ceremony commenced. The priest read the marriage
service, during which he put a ring on the finger of each, with
many crossings, and touching the head and breast, and afterwards he
changed the rings; he then put a chaplet made of an olive branch
with its leaves on the head of each, and after a similar crossing
and touching the head and breast, the chaplets were changed; he
then took a cup of wine, and made them both drink of it: this, with
the priest's blessing, closed the marriage. The bride was then made
to follow her husband to the place where the horses were fastened.
Her attendants led her, and her walk was as slow as you can well
conceive,--a step, then a pause, then a very slow moving of the
foot forward; she must show great reluctance, and be forced after
her "well beloved." He seemed to give himself no trouble about her,
but mounted his horse, and waited with his back towards her, until
the signal should be given for starting. At last, by half carrying
and half pushing her, the bride reached the horse brought to take
her to her new home, and was mounted astride, as is the custom for
females to ride here. The signal was given, and the bridegroom moved
forward, accompanied by most of the male guests, while the females
surrounded the bride, some on animals, others on foot. The music and
screaming were kept up, and "the friend of the bridegroom" danced
and played all sorts of odd tricks before him. It was his business
to make sport for them. A pomegranate was given to the bride, which
she breaks as she enters her husband's door, thus showing that she
promises to be an obedient and dutiful wife. About dark, a few
weeks ago, we were somewhat startled by a discharge of artillery
from the castles about the town, one of which stands very near
us. We were, however, soon told that it was meant to signify the
commencement of the fast of the Rammedan, a fast of the Mohammedans.
During the continuance of this fast they are not to eat, drink, or
smoke, from sunrise to sunset. They may, however, eat and drink
during the night, and they make amends for their abstinence during
the day. Many of them turn day into night, night into day, eating
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