Letters on the equality of the sexes, and the condition of womanGrimké, Sarah
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Letters on the equality of the sexes, and the condition of woman
Grimké, Sarah
Women -- History; Women -- United States; Women's rights -- United States
MY DEAR FRIEND,--Before I proceed with the account of that oppression
which woman has suffered in every age and country from her _protector_,
man, permit me to offer for your consideration, some views relative
to the social intercourse of the sexes. Nearly the whole of this
intercourse is, in my apprehension, derogatory to man and woman, as
moral and intellectual beings. We approach each other, and mingle
with each other, under the constant pressure of a feeling that we are
of different sexes; and, instead of regarding each other only in the
light of immortal creatures, the mind is fettered by the idea which is
early and industriously infused into it, that we must never forget the
distinction between male and female. Hence our intercourse, instead
of being elevated and refined, is generally calculated to excite and
keep alive the lowest propensities of our nature. Nothing, I believe,
has tended more to destroy the true dignity of woman, than the fact
that she is approached by man in the character of a female. The idea
that she is sought as an intelligent and heaven-born creature, whose
society will cheer, refine and elevate her companion, and that she
will receive the same blessings she confers, is rarely held up to her
view. On the contrary, man almost always addresses himself to the
weakness of woman. By flattery, by an appeal to her passions, he seeks
access to her heart; and when he has gained her affections, he uses
her as the instrument of his pleasure--the minister of his temporal
comfort. He furnishes himself with a housekeeper, whose chief business
is in the kitchen, or the nursery. And whilst he goes abroad and
enjoys the means of improvement afforded by collision of intellect
with cultivated minds, his wife is condemned to draw nearly all her
instruction from books, if she has time to peruse them; and if not,
from her meditations, whilst engaged in those domestic duties, which
are necessary for the comfort of her lord and master.
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