Letters on the equality of the sexes, and the condition of womanGrimké, Sarah
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Letters on the equality of the sexes, and the condition of woman
Grimké, Sarah
Women -- History; Women -- United States; Women's rights -- United States
The ancient Lydians are the only exception that I have met with, and
the origin of their peculiar customs is so much obscured by fable, that
it is difficult to ascertain the truth. Probably they arose from some
great benefit conferred on the state by women.
Among the Druses who reside in the mountains of the Anti Libanus,
a wife is often divorced on the slightest pretext. If she ask her
husband’s permission to go out, and he says,--‘Go,’ without adding ‘but
come back again,’ she is divorced.
In Siberia, it is considered a wife’s duty to obey the most capricious
and unreasonable demands of her husband, without one word of
expostulation or inquiry. If her master be dissatisfied with the most
trifling particular in her conduct, he tears the cap or veil from her
head, and this constitutes a divorce.
A Persian woman, under the dominion of the kindest master, is treated
much in the same manner as a favorite animal. To vary her personal
graces for his pleasure, is the sole end and aim of her existence.
As moral or intellectual beings, it would be better for them to be
among the dead than the living. The mother instructs her daughter in
all the voluptuous coquetry, by which she herself acquired precarious
ascendency over her absolute master; but all that is truly estimable in
female character is utterly neglected.
Hence we find women extravagantly fond of adorning their persons.
Regarded as instruments of pleasure, they have been degraded into mere
animals, and have found their own gratification principally in the
indulgence of personal vanity, because their external charms procured
for them, at least a temporary ascendency over those, who held in their
hands the reins of government. A few instances must suffice, or I shall
exceed the limits I have prescribed to myself in this letter.
During the magnificent prosperity of Israel, marriages were conducted
with great pomp; and with the progress of luxury and refinement, women
became expensive, rather than profitable in a pecuniary point of view.
Hence probably arose the custom of wealthy parents giving a handsome
dowry with their daughters. On the day of the nuptials, the bride was
conducted by her female relations to the bath, where she was anointed
with the choicest perfumes, her hair perfumed and braided, her eyebrows
deepened with black powder, and the tips of her fingers tinged with
rose color. She was then arrayed in a marriage robe of brilliant color;
the girdle and bracelets were more or less costly.
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