Letters on the equality of the sexes, and the condition of woman — John Shaqi
Letters on the equality of the sexes, and the condition of womanGrimké, Sarah
Religion
Letters on the equality of the sexes, and the condition of woman
Grimké, Sarah
Women -- History; Women -- United States; Women's rights -- United States
MY DEAR SISTER,--It will scarcely be denied, I presume, that, as a
general rule, men do not desire the improvement of women. There are few
instances of men who are magnanimous enough to be entirely willing that
women should know more than themselves, on any subjects except dress
and cookery; and, indeed, this necessarily flows from their assumption
of superiority. As _they_ have determined that Jehovah has placed
woman on a lower platform than man, they of course wish to keep her
there; and hence the noble faculties of our minds are crushed, and our
reasoning powers are almost wholly uncultivated.
A writer in the time of Charles I. says--‘She that knoweth how to
compound a pudding, is more desirable than she who skilfully compounded
a poem. A female poet I mislike at all times.’ Within the last century,
it has been gravely asserted that, ‘chemistry enough to keep the pot
boiling, and geography enough to know the location of the different
rooms in her house, is learning sufficient for a woman.’ Byron, who
was too sensual to conceive of a pure and perfect companionship
between the sexes, would limit a woman’s library to a Bible and cookery
book. I have myself heard men, who knew for themselves the value of
intellectual culture, say they cared very little for a wife who could
not make a pudding, and smile with contempt at the ardent thirst for
knowledge exhibited by some women.
But all this is miserable wit and worse philosophy. It exhibits that
passion for the gratification of a pampered appetite, which is beneath
those who claim to be so far above us, and may justly be placed on
a par with the policy of the slaveholder, who says that men will be
better slaves, if they are not permitted to learn to read.
In spite, however, of the obstacles which impede the progress of women
towards that state of high mental cultivation for which her Creator
prepared her, the tendency towards the universal dissemination of
knowledge has had its influence on their destinies; and in all ages, a
few have surmounted every hindrance, and proved, beyond dispute, that
they have talents equal to their brethren.
Cornelia, the daughter of Scipio Africanus, was distinguished for
virtue, learning and good sense. She wrote and spoke with uncommon
elegance and purity. Cicero and Quinctilian bestow high praise upon
her letters, and the eloquence of her children was attributed to
her careful superintendence. This reminds me of a remark made by my
brother, Thomas S. Grimke, when speaking of the importance of women
being well educated, that ‘educated men would never make educated
women, but educated women would make educated men.’ I believe the
sentiment is correct, because if the wealth of latent intellect among
women was fully evolved and improved, they would rejoice to communicate
to their sons all their own knowledge, and inspire them with desires to
drink from the fountain of literature.
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