Letters on the equality of the sexes, and the condition of womanGrimké, Sarah
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Letters on the equality of the sexes, and the condition of woman
Grimké, Sarah
Women -- History; Women -- United States; Women's rights -- United States
Lest any one may suppose from my being a Quaker, that I should like to
see a uniform dress adopted, I will say, that I have no partiality
for their peculiar costume, except so far as I find it simple and
convenient; and I have not the remotest desire to see it worn, where
one more commodious can be substituted. But I do believe one of the
chief obstacles in the way of woman’s elevation to the same platform
of human rights, and moral dignity, and intellectual improvement, with
her brother, on which God placed her, and where he designed her to
act her part as an immortal creature, is her love of dress. ‘It has
been observed,’ says Scott, ‘that foppery and extravagance as to dress
_in men_ are most emphatically condemned by the apostle’s silence on
the subject, for this intimated that surely _they_ could be under no
temptation to such a childish vanity.’ But even those men who are
superior to such a childish vanity in themselves, are, nevertheless,
ever ready to encourage it in women. They know that so long as we
submit to be dressed like dolls, we never can rise to the stations of
duty and usefulness from which they desire to exclude us; and they are
willing to grant us paltry indulgences, which forward their own design
of keeping us out of our appropriate sphere, while they deprive us of
essential rights.
To me it appears beneath the dignity of woman to bedeck herself in
gewgaws and trinkets, in ribbons and laces, to gratify the eye of man.
I believe, furthermore, that we owe a solemn duty to the poor. Many a
woman, in what is called humble life, spends nearly all her earnings in
dress, because she wants to be as well attired as her employer. It is
often argued that, as the birds and the flowers are gaily adorned by
nature’s hand, there can be no sin in woman’s ornamenting her person.
My reply is, God created me neither a bird nor a flower; and I aspire
to something more than a resemblance to them. Besides, the gaudy colors
in which birds and flowers are arrayed, create in them no feelings of
vanity; but as human beings, we are susceptible of these passions,
which are nurtured and strengthened by such adornments. ‘Well,’ I am
often asked, ‘where is the limitation?’ This it is not my business to
decide. Every woman, as Judson remarks, can best settle this on her
knees before God. He has commanded her not to be conformed to this
world, but to be transformed by the renewing of her mind, that she may
know what is the good and acceptable and perfect will of God. He made
the dress of the Jewish women the subject of special denunciation by
his prophet--Is. 3: 16-26; yet the chains and the bracelets, the rings
and the ear-rings, and the changeable suits of apparel, are still worn
by Christian women. He has commanded them, through his apostles, not
to adorn themselves with broidered hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly
array. Not to let their adorning be the ‘outward adorning of plaiting
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