Letters on the equality of the sexes, and the condition of womanGrimké, Sarah
Religion
Letters on the equality of the sexes, and the condition of woman
Grimké, Sarah
Women -- History; Women -- United States; Women's rights -- United States
What a mortifying proof this law affords, of the estimation in which
woman is held! She is placed completely in the hands of a being subject
like herself to the outbursts of passion, and therefore unworthy to be
trusted with power. Perhaps I may be told respecting this law, that
it is a dead letter, as I am sometimes told about the slave laws; but
this is not true in either case. The slaveholder does kill his slave
by moderate correction, as the law allows; and many a husband, among
the poor, exercises the right given him by the law, of degrading
woman by personal chastisement. And among the higher ranks, if actual
imprisonment is not resorted to, women are not unfrequently restrained
of the liberty of going to places of worship by irreligious husbands,
and of doing many other things about which, as moral and responsible
beings, _they_ should be the _sole_ judges. Such laws remind me of
the reply of some little girls at a children’s meeting held recently
at Ipswich. The lecturer told them that God had created four orders
of beings with which he had made us acquainted through the Bible. The
first was angels, the second was man, the third beasts; and now,
children, what is the fourth? After a pause, several girls replied,
‘WOMEN.’
‘A woman’s personal property by marriage becomes absolutely her
husband’s, which, at his death, he may leave entirely away from her.’
And farther, all the avails of her labor are absolutely in the power
of her husband. All that she acquires by her industry is his; so that
she cannot, with her own honest earnings, become the legal purchaser
of any property. If she expends her money for articles of furniture,
to contribute to the comfort of her family, they are liable to be
seized for her husband’s debts: and I know an instance of a woman, who
by labor and economy had scraped together a little maintenance for
herself and a do-little husband, who was left, at his death, by virtue
of his last will and testament, to be supported by charity. I knew
another woman, who by great industry had acquired a little money which
she deposited in a bank for safe keeping. She had saved this pittance
whilst able to work, in hopes that when age or sickness disqualified
her for exertion, she might have something to render life comfortable,
without being a burden to her friends. Her husband, a worthless, idle
man, discovered this hid treasure, drew her little stock from the
bank, and expended it all in extravagance and vicious indulgence. I
know of another woman, who married without the least idea that she was
surrendering her rights to all her personal property. Accordingly, she
went to the bank as usual to draw her dividends, and the person who
paid her the money, and to whom she was personally known as an owner
of shares in that bank, remarking the change in her signature, withdrew
the money, informing her that if she were married, she had no longer
a right to draw her dividends without an order from her husband. It
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