Letters on the equality of the sexes, and the condition of womanGrimké, Sarah
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Letters on the equality of the sexes, and the condition of woman
Grimké, Sarah
Women -- History; Women -- United States; Women's rights -- United States
The laws I have quoted, are, I believe, the laws of Massachusetts, and,
with few exceptions, of all the States in this Union. ‘In Louisiana
and Missouri, and possibly, in some other southern States, a woman not
only has half her husband’s property by right at his death, but may
always be considered as possessed of half his gains during his life;
having at all times power to bequeath that amount.’ That the laws which
have generally been adopted in the United States, for the government
of women, have been framed almost entirely for the exclusive benefit
of men, and with a design to oppress women, by depriving them of all
control over their property, is too manifest to be denied. Some liberal
and enlightened men, I know, regret the existence of these laws; and
I quote with pleasure an extract from Harriet Martineau’s Society in
America, as a proof of the assertion. ‘A liberal minded lawyer of
Boston, told me that his advice to testators always is to leave the
largest possible amount to the widow, subject to the condition of her
leaving it to the children; but that it is with shame that he reflects
that any woman should owe that to his professional advice, which
the law should have secured to her as a right.’ I have known a few
instances where men have left their whole property to their wives, when
they have died, leaving only minor children; but I have known more
instances of ‘the friend and helper of many years, being portioned off
like a salaried domestic,’ instead of having a comfortable independence
secured to her, while the children were amply provided for.
As these abuses do exist, and women suffer intensely from them, our
brethren are called upon in this enlightened age, by every sentiment of
honor, religion and justice, to repeal these unjust and unequal laws,
and restore to woman those rights which they have wrested from her.
Such laws approximate too nearly to the laws enacted by slaveholders
for the government of their slaves, and must tend to debase and
depress the mind of that being, whom God created as a help meet for
man, or ‘helper like unto himself,’ and designed to be his equal and
his companion. Until such laws are annulled, woman never can occupy
that exalted station for which she was intended by her Maker. And just
in proportion as they are practically disregarded, which is the case
to some extent, just so far is woman assuming that independence and
nobility of character which she ought to exhibit.
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