Letters on the Improvement of the Mind, Addressed to a LadyChapone, Mrs. (Hester)
Religion
Letters on the Improvement of the Mind, Addressed to a Lady
Chapone, Mrs. (Hester)
Women -- Education; Young women -- Conduct of life
How lamentable it is, that so few hearts should feel the pleasures of
real piety; that prayer and thanksgiving should be performed, as they
too often are, not with joy, and love, and gratitude; but, with cold
indifference, melancholy dejection, or secret horror! It is true, we
are all such frail and sinful creatures, that we justly fear to have
offended our gracious Father: but let us remember the condition of his
forgiveness: If you have sinned, "sin no more." He is ready to receive
you whenever you sincerely turn to him--and he is ready to assist you,
when you do but desire to obey him. Let your devotion then be the
language of filial love and gratitude; confide to this kindest of
fathers every want and every wish of your heart; but submit them all
to his will, and freely offer him the disposal of yourself, and of all
your affairs. Thank him for his benefits, and even for his
punishments--convinced that these also are benefits, and mercifully
designed for your good. Implore his direction in all difficulties; his
assistance in all trials; his comfort and support in sickness or
affliction; his restraining grace in time of prosperity and joy. Do not
persist in desiring what his providence denies you; but be assured it
is not good for you. Refuse not any thing he allots you, but embrace it
as the best and properest for you. Can you do less to your heavenly
Father than what your duty to an earthly one requires? If you were to
ask permission of your father to do or to have any thing you desire,
and he should refuse it to you, would you obstinately persist in
setting your heart upon it notwithstanding his prohibition? Would you
not rather say, My father is wiser than I am; he loves me, and would
not deny my request, if it was fit to be granted; I will therefore
banish the thought, and cheerfully acquiesce in his will? How much
rather should this be said of our heavenly Father, whose wisdom cannot
be mistaken, and whose bountiful kindness is infinite! Love him,
therefore, in the same manner you love your earthly parents, but in a
much higher degree--in the highest your nature is capable of. Forget
not to dedicate yourself to his service every day; to implore his
forgiveness of your faults, and his protection from evil, every night:
and this not merely in formal words, unaccompanied by any act of the
mind, but "in spirit and in truth;" in grateful love and humble
adoration. Nor let these stated periods of worship be your only
communication with him; accustom yourself to think often of him, in all
your waking hours,--to contemplate his wisdom and power, in the works
of his hands,--to acknowledge his goodness in every object of use or of
pleasure,--to delight in giving him praise in your inmost heart in the
midst of every innocent gratification--in the liveliest hour of social
enjoyment. You cannot conceive, if you have not experienced, how much
such silent acts of gratitude and love will enhance every pleasure; nor
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