This experience of mine may let light into your situation and give you a
basis for a good programme. In working it out it is necessary to be
careful not to make things comfortable for the servants at the expense
of the family. As the two points of making the outing longer and
starting at regular hours can only be accomplished by one servant taking
the duty of the other in her absence, it is important to impress on
their minds at the outset that these duties must be performed so well
that the household will not be inconvenienced. Since it is a fair
exchange, maids are usually contented to do this, and it is the duty of
the mistress to train them and to see that each servant carries out the
idea, doing her fair share of the work. Where there is more than one
servant, these outings can easily be arranged, even with a family of
irregular habits, so that they all will be able to get off promptly and
stay out long enough, without any inconvenience to the household. In the
case where there is only one maid, who does the cooking and all the work
of the house, the household is, of necessity, run more informally, and a
chafing-dish meal can take the place of one of the Sunday meals in order
to let her off. But if the mistress feels that she must have her meals
go on just as regularly on Sunday as any other day, she should hire some
one to come in for the time the servant is out. You can readily see that
she should not expect one servant to keep up the house unaided in just
the way that two or three servants do it.
I have heard nice women say, “I have only one servant, so of course I
can’t let her go out.” This is really cruel, though not intentionally
so, because, if the maid has all the work to do, she needs a complete
and regular rest all the more. The mistress should look upon the money
paid to some one for taking her place as one of the regular necessary
household expenses.
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