Life in the sick-room : $b EssaysMartineau, Harriet
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Life in the sick-room : $b Essays
Martineau, Harriet
Conduct of life; Sick
“Yet have they special pleasures, even mirth,
By those undreamt of who have only trod
Life’s valley smooth; and if the rolling earth
To their nice ear have many a painful tone,
They know man does not live by joy alone,
But by the presence of the power of God.”
MILNES.
“But here we are;--that is a great fact; and, if we tarry a little,
we may come to learn that here is best. See to it only that thyself
is here; and art and nature, hope and dread, friends, angels, and
the Supreme Being, shall not be absent from the chamber where thou
sittest.”
EMERSON.
It is harder to be brief about our gains and privileges than about our
peculiar troubles: but I must try to be so; for the discoveries we make,
though to us all glowing with freshness and beauty, are, to those who
merely receive them, as trite as any old moralities whatever.
One great and strange blessing to us is, the abolition of the future--of
our own future in this life.
It is commonly thought a chief privilege of childhood, that it is passed
without thought of the future--that the present is all in all. I doubt
the truth of this. My own experience in childhood was of a painful and
incessant longing for the future--a longing which enhanced all its
innumerable pains, and embittered many of its pleasures--a longing for
strength of body and of mind, for independence of action--for an escape,
in short, from the conditions of childhood. The privilege which I then
missed I have found now. Let it be a comfort to all sorrowing friends of
those who are under any sort of doom without an assigned period to know,
that in such cases the sense of doom vanishes. When the future becomes a
blank to us, it becomes presently invisible. And when we sustain this
change we do not contract in our desires and interests, but, I humbly
hope, the contrary. The thoughts which stretched forwards, with
eagerness and anxiety, now spread themselves abroad, more calmly and
with more disinterestedness. There is danger of our losing sympathy with
the young, the healthy, the ambitious; for we soon require to be
reminded of those states of mind, and those classes of interests which
involve ambition, or any kind of personal regard to the future: but, if
we can preserve these sympathies, it does appear to me that the change
is, to ourselves, pure gain. The image of five, ten, twenty years of our
present life, or decline into deeper suffering, ending in death, makes
absolutely no impression upon us. We have not the slightest movement of
a wish that it were otherwise;--we do not turn our heads half round to
see if there be no way of escape: and this is because our interests are
all occupied with immediate and pressing objects, in which we have
ascertained our true life to consist. Of these objects we would not
surrender one for the permission to go back to the most brilliant point
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