Life in the sick-room : $b EssaysMartineau, Harriet
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Life in the sick-room : $b Essays
Martineau, Harriet
Conduct of life; Sick
If all sorrow teaches us that nothing is more universal than sympathy,
long and irremediable sickness proves plainly, that nothing is more
various than its kinds and degrees; or, it may be, than the
manifestations of the sympathetic grief which is shared by all. In a
sharp sickness of a few days or weeks, all good and kind people act and
speak much alike; are busy and ingenious in hastening the recovery, and
providing relief meantime. It is when death is not to be looked for, nor
yet health, that the test is applied; that, on either hand, the genius
and the awkwardness of consolation present themselves, with a vast
gradation between these extremes. It is easy and pleasant to be grateful
for all, and to appreciate the love and pity which inspire them; but it
is impossible to relish all equally, or to give the same admiration to
that which flows forth fully and freely, and that sympathy which is
suppressed, restricted, or in any way changed before it reaches its
object.
O! what a heavenly solace to the soul is free sympathy in its hour of
need! There is but one that can vie with it; and that one is, in truth,
an enhancement of the same emotions. Communion with
“Mercy, carried infinite degrees
Beyond the tenderness of human hearts,”
is, indeed, the supreme, incommunicable delight which must be only
referred to, because no sense of it can be conveyed by language; but,
because it is of kindred nature, though separated by immeasurable
distance, the solace of human sympathy ranks next to this. What a
springing of the heart, like that on the discovery of a new truth, or
entrance on a new enterprise in youth, attends the revelation to a
sufferer of some stroke of genius in the consolations of one of the many
who grieve for his affliction!
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