Life in the sick-room : $b EssaysMartineau, Harriet
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Life in the sick-room : $b Essays
Martineau, Harriet
Conduct of life; Sick
At all events, there is something sweet and consoling in the fellowship.
Though we would, if we could, endure anything to set the other
free--though we would thankfully take upon us any suffering that nature
could bear for the thought that no one else was qualified to conceive of
our troubles,--yet, as this cannot be, we may make the most of the
comfort of our companionship. In our wakeful night seasons, when the
healthy and the happy are asleep, we may call to each other from our
retreats, to know each how the other fares; and, whether we are at the
moment dreary or at peace, it may be that there are angels abroad,
(perhaps the messengers of our own sympathies), who may bear our mutual
greetings, and drop them on their rounds. Often has this been my fancy,
when the images close about me have been terrific enough; and when, in
the very throng of these horrors, I have cast about for some charm or
talisman wherewith to rid myself of them, and some voice of prayer has
presently reached me from a temple on the furthest horizon of my
life--or some sweet or triumphant hymn of submission or praise has
floated to my spirit’s ear from the far shores of my childhood--I have
hoped, in the midst of the heaven thus brought down about me, that the
same consolations were visiting you, who in the same need would, I knew,
make the same appeal.
But there are times when the sense of fellowship is dearer still. You
know, doubtless, as well as I, the emptiness of the consolation when
our pitying friends, in all love and sincerity, remind us of what we did
by our efforts when we were well and active, and what we are doing still
for the world, by preserving a decent quietness in the midst of our
troubles. You know, as well as I, how withering would be the sense of
our own nothingness, if we tried to take comfort from our own dignity
and usefulness. You know, as well as I, how very far we can see from our
place on the verge of life, over its expanse, and how ridiculous, if it
were not shocking, would be any complacency on the ground of our having
followed the instincts of our nature to work, while work was
possible,--the issues of such divinely-appointed instrumentality being
wholly brought out and directed by Him who framed and actuated us. You
know, as I do, how useful it is to human beings to have before their
eyes spectacles of all experiences; and we are alike willing, having
worked while we could, now to suffer as we may, to help our kind in
another mode. We feel it some little service to be appointed to,--having
become accustomed to our footing on the shaking plank over the deep dark
river,--to lead on and uphold with a steady hand some who may be
appointed to follow, and perhaps to pass us upon it.
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