Life in the sick-room : $b EssaysMartineau, Harriet
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Life in the sick-room : $b Essays
Martineau, Harriet
Conduct of life; Sick
SIR THOMAS BROWN.
It is very surprising, and rather amusing, to invalids whose
constitution and disease dispose them to other kinds of ill-temper
rather than irritability, to perceive how this tendency, and no other,
is set up as a test of temper by persons inexperienced in sickness.
There are cases, and they are not few, where an invalid’s freedom from
irritability of temper is a merit of a very high order indeed: but there
are many,--perhaps more,--where, to award praise on this ground, is like
extolling the sick person for being worthy of trust with untold gold, or
for his being never known to game or get drunk. This last, indeed,
may,--amidst the sinkings of illness, with wine and laudanum in the
closet,--often be actually the greater merit. It is a case in which
every thing depends on the existence of temptation. Persons suffering
under frequent fever, or certain kinds of pain or nervous disturbance,
or afflicted with ill-qualified nurses, may be pardoned for almost any
degree of irritability, or may be unspeakably meritorious in resisting
the tendency, with more or less steadiness. But there are some of us who
cannot but smile at compliments on our freedom from irritability, when
we feel that we never have the slightest inclination to be cross, nor
have the least excuse for being so,--while we may be most abasingly
aware of other kinds of frailty of temper.
To me it appears that we are, for the most part, in greater peril from
other faults, because they are less looked for, less discussed and
recognised, and we are, therefore, less put upon our guard against them:
and also because their consequences are less immediately and obviously
detrimental to our own comfort. Besides that all persons grow up on the
look-out for irritability of temper, and therefore are more or less on
the watch against it when they come to be ill, it is clear to the idlest
and most selfish mind, that the whole hope of comfort in the sick-room
depends on the freedom and cheerfulness of the intercourse held in
it,--a freedom and cheerfulness forfeited by irritability on the part of
the sufferer,--necessarily forfeited, even if he were tended by the
hands of angels. Children are the brightest, if not the tenderest,
angels of the sick-room; and the alternative between their coming
springing in, not only voluntarily but eagerly, and their being brought,
for observance’ sake, with force and fear, is of itself inducement
enough to self-control on the part of the most fretted patient, in the
most feverish hour. Even in the middle of the night, when no one is by
but the soundly sleeping nurse, the invalid feels admonished to suppress
the slightest moan, when he sees in fancy his little friends the next
morning either leaping from their beds at the joyful thought that they
may visit him, or asking, with awe and gravity, whether they must go,
and how soon they may come away. It is the sweetest of cordials to the
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