Life in the sick-room : $b EssaysMartineau, Harriet
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Life in the sick-room : $b Essays
Martineau, Harriet
Conduct of life; Sick
The faults I have alluded to are such only as are compatible with
general sincerity--such as have a character of frailty. Those which
include tendencies essentially low--untruth, double-dealing, and selfish
policy--assume so disgusting an aspect, when tested by the trying light
and amidst the solemn leisure of the sick-room, that it cannot be wrong
to follow willingly the irresistible leadings of nature--to dismiss them
with loathing, and invite to our arms the simple and heroic sincerity,
and the cheerful devotedness to the honour of God and the interests of
man, which here assume much of the radiance in which they come back in
vision from beyond the grave. If it be true that our moral taste becomes
more sensitive in our seclusion, I trust that such sensitiveness has not
necessarily any fastidiousness in it, but that its relish of good grows
in full proportion to its discipline. I trust that if its disgust
deepens as the low and cowardly order of faults are stripped to
nakedness, so does its appreciation become more expanded and generous in
regard to qualities which befit our heroic and aspiring nature and
destination.
As for our best resource under the liabilities I have alluded to, a mere
reference will suffice. “Whatsoever things are honest, pure, holy,
lovely--to think on these things;” to fill our souls with conceptions of
the god-like, so that our sensitiveness may turn in time to a keen
apprehension of all that is in affinity with these; this is what we have
to do--partly for present solace, and much more for the chance of
converting our weakness into power--our mortal discipline into a
heavenly habitude.
As for the ordinary and familiar sufferings and dangers of our state,
the weariness of life which every one but the physician wonders at,
often as it is witnessed; the longing for non-existence, which some
pious people, who admit no bodily origin of any mental affection, are
very much shocked at; the despair during protracted violent pain, which,
however, being dumb, is seldom known at the moment--these cannot be
illustrated, nor remedied, by anything that can be said on paper. One
can only suggest to the sufferer, and to wise nurses, that in the power
of ideas we are furnished with an implement of natural magic which may
possibly operate at the most hopeless times. It was in a sort of despair
that the father of the lame child, inconsiderately led out too far, gave
the boy his stick to ride home on; whereupon the aching foot actually
traversed the needful mile without being felt to ache. So the wise nurse
may possibly find that a nobler idea than any hope of rest or relief may
reanimate a spirit under a far severer pain. And assuredly there are
some who could tell how, in the midst of anguish, the briefest
suggestion of endurance, the slightest spiritual touch upon deep filial
affections, has made a miraculous truce for them with torment and
despair.
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