What right have we to hate our enemies, when we ourselves have been
guilty of the same fault for which we think we have the right to hate
them; when we ourselves have been guilty of hatred? What right have we
to hate them, even if they have done wrong, even if we believe them
wicked, when we ourselves nearly always have done the same wrong
actions, have been defiled with the same pitch? What right have we to
hate them if nearly always we are responsible for their hate? We, who
with the endless errors of our monstrous self-love, have forced them to
hate us? And he who hates is unhappy, is the first to suffer. We ought
to respond with love to that hatred, with gentleness to that harshness
as reparation for the suffering of which we are often the real cause,
immediate or distant.
Our enemy is also our savior. We ought every day to be grateful to our
enemies; they alone see clearly and state openly what is ignoble in us;
they make us conscious of our moral poverty, the realization of which is
the only beginning for the second birth. For this service we owe them
love. For our enemy needs love, and needs our love. He who loves us
already has his joy and reward in himself. He needs no reward from us.
But he who hates is unhappy; hates because he is unhappy. His hatred is
the bitter outlet for his sufferings. We are partly guilty for this
suffering, and even if, over-confident in our innocence, we do not feel
that we are responsible, we ought nevertheless to comfort with love the
unhappiness of the man who hates, to calm him, make him better, convert
him also to the beatitudes of loving. We will know him better if we love
him, and knowing him better, we will love him more. We only love
heartily what we know well. If we love our enemy, his soul will be
transparent to us, and as we penetrate further into it, we will discover
much more to call forth our pity and our love; because every enemy is an
unrecognized brother; we often hate in him what resembles our own
natures. Something of ourselves, unknown perhaps to us, is in our enemy
and is often the cause of our hostility. When we love our enemies we
purify our spirit by understanding and lift his spirit upward. Hatred,
instead of driving men apart, may thus engender a light that liberates
men’s souls. The worst of evil may bring about the highest good.
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