Lights and Shadows of New York Life: or, the Sights and Sensations of the Great CityMcCabe, James Dabney
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Lights and Shadows of New York Life: or, the Sights and Sensations of the Great City
McCabe, James Dabney
New York (N.Y.) -- Description and travel; New York (N.Y.) -- Social life and customs -- 19th century
Towards morning the ball breaks up. The guests, worn out with fatigue,
and not unfrequently confused with liquor, take leave of their hosts and
go home. Many of them repeat the same performance almost nightly during
the season. No wonder that when the summer comes they are so much in
need of recuperation.
VII. MARRIAGE AND DEATH.
Only wealthy marriages are tolerated in New York society. For men or
women to marry beneath them is a crime society cannot forgive. There
must be fortune on one side at least. Marriages for money are directly
encouraged. It is not uncommon for a man who has won a fortune to make
the marriage of his daughter the means of getting his family into
society. He will go to some young man within the pale of good society,
and offer him the hand of his daughter and a fortune. The condition
demanded of the aforesaid young man is that he shall do what may lie
within his power to get the family of the bride within the charmed
circle. If the girl is good looking, or agreeable, the offer is rarely
refused.
When a marriage is decided upon, the engagement is announced through one
of the "society newspapers," of which there are several. It is the
bounden duty of the happy pair to be married in a fashionable church. To
be married in or buried from Grace or St. Thomas's Church, is the desire
of every fashionable heart. Invitations are issued to the friends of the
two families, and no one is admitted into the church without a card.
Often "no cards" are issued, and the church is jammed by the outside
throng, who profane the holy temple by their unmannerly struggles to
secure places from which to view the ceremony. Two clergymen are usually
engaged to tie the knot, in order that a Divorce Court may find it the
easier to undo. A reporter is on hand, who furnishes the city papers
with a full description of the grand affair. The dresses, the jewels,
the appearance of the bride and groom, and the company generally, are
described with all the eloquence Jenkins is master of.
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