Mrs. Condon eyed her daughter speculatively. “Now if you were only four
years older,” she declared, “it would be a good thing. He was simply
born to be a husband.” Horror filled Linda at the other's implication.
“Yes,” the elder insisted; “you couldn't do better; except, perhaps,
for those girls of his. But then you'd have no trouble making them
miserable. It's time to talk to you seriously about marriage.” The smoke
from the cigarette eddied in a gray veil across her unrefreshed face.
“You're old for your age, Linda; your life has made you that; and, like
I said last night, it is rather better than not. Well, for you marriage,
and soon as possible, is the proper thing. Mind, I have never said a
word against it; only what suits one doesn't suit another. Where it
wouldn't be anything more than an old ladies' home to me you need it
early and plenty. You are too intense. That doesn't go in the world. Men
don't like it. They want their pleasure and comfort without strings tied
to them; the intensity has to be theirs.
“What you must get through your head is that love--whatever it is--and
marriage are two different things, and if you are going to be successful
they must be kept separate. You can't do anything with a man if you love
him; but then you can't do anything with him if he doesn't love you.
That's the whole thing in a breath. I am not crying down love, either;
only I don't want you to think it is the bread and butter while it's
nothing more than those little sweet cakes at Henri's.
“Now any girl who marries a poor man or for love--they are the same
thing--is a fool and deserves what she gets. No one thanks her for it,
him least of all; because if she does love him it is only to make them
miserable. She's always at him--where did he go and why did he stay so
long, and no matter what he says she knows it's a lie. More times than
not she's right, too. I can't tell you too often--men don't want to be
loved, they like to be flattered and flattered and then flattered again.
You'd never believe how childish they are.
“Make them think they're it and don't give too much--that's the secret.
Above all else don't be easy on them. Don't say 'all right, darling,
next spring will do as well for a new suit.' Get it then and let him
worry about paying for it, if worry he must. If they don't give it to
you some one smarter will wear it. But I started to talk about getting
married.
“Choose a Moses Feldt, who will always be grateful to you, and keep him
at it. They are so easy to land it's a kind of shame, too. Perhaps I am
telling you this too soon, but I don't want any mistakes. Well, pick
out your Moses--and mama will help you there--and suddenly, at the right
time, show him that you can be affectionate; surprise him with it and
you so staid and particular generally. Don't overdo it, promise more
than you ever give--
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