In truth, Milton’s book on divorce—though only containing principles
which he continued to believe long after he had any personal reasons
for wishing to do so—were clearly suggested at first by the unusual
phenomena of his first marriage. His wife began by not speaking to him,
and finished by running away from him. Accordingly, like most books which
spring out of personal circumstances, his treatises on this subject have
a frankness, and a mastery of detail, which others on the same topic
sometimes want. He is remarkably free from one peculiarity of modern
writers on such matters. Several considerate gentlemen are extremely
anxious for the ‘rights of woman.’ They think that women will benefit by
removing the bulwarks which the misguided experience of ages has erected
for their protection. A migratory system of domestic existence might suit
Madame Dudevant, and a few cases of singular exception; but we cannot
fancy that it would be, after all, so much to the taste of most ladies
as the present more permanent system. We have some reminiscence of the
stories of the wolf and the lamb, when we hear amiable men addressing
a female auditory (in books, of course) on the advantages of a freer
‘development.’ We are perhaps wrong, but we cherish an indistinct
suspicion that an indefinite extension of the power of selection would
rather tend to the advantage of the sex which more usually chooses.
But we have no occasion to avow such opinions now. Milton had no such
modern views. He is frankly and honestly anxious for the rights of
the man. Of the doctrine that divorce is only permitted for the help
of wives, he exclaims, ‘Palpably uxorious! who can be ignorant, that
a woman was created for man, and not man for woman? What an injury is
it after wedlock to be slighted! what to be contended with in point of
house-rule who shall be the head; not for any parity of wisdom, for that
were something reasonable, but out of a female pride! “I suffer not,”
saith St. Paul, “the woman to usurp authority over the man.” If the
Apostle could not suffer it,’ he naturally remarks, ‘into what mould is
he mortified that can?’ He had a sincere desire to preserve men from the
society of unsocial and unsympathising women; and that was his principal
idea.
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