American essays; Literature -- History and criticism
About the pursuit of happiness, how often I say to myself, that
considering life as a whole, the most one ought to expect is a kind of
negative happiness, a neutral state, the absence of acute or positive
unhappiness. Neutral tints make up the great background of nature, and
why not of life? Neutral tints wear best in anything. We do not tire
of them. How much even in the best books is of a negative or neutral
character,--a background upon which the positive beauty is projected.
A kind of tranquil, wholesome indifference, with now and then a dash
of positive joy, is the best of the common lot. To be consciously and
positively happy all the while,--how vain to expect it! We cannot walk
through life on mountain peaks. Both laughter and tears we know, but a
safe remove from both is the average felicity.
Another thought which often occurs to me is that we each have a certain
capacity for happiness or unhappiness which is pretty constant. We
are like lakes or ponds which have their level, and which as a rule
are not permanently raised or lowered. As things go in this world,
each of us has about all the happiness he has the capacity for. We
cannot be permanently set up or cast down. A healthful nature, in the
vicissitudes of experience, is not made permanently unhappy, nor, on
the other hand, is its water level permanently raised. Deplete us
and we fill up; flood us and we quickly run down. We think that if a
certain event were to come to pass, if some rare good fortune should
befall us, our stock of happiness would be permanently increased, but
the chances are that it would not; after a time we should settle back
to the old everyday level. We should get used to the new conditions,
the new prosperity, and find life wearing essentially the same tints as
before. Our pond is fed from hidden springs; happiness is from within,
and outward circumstances have but little power over it. The poor man
thinks how happy he would be with the possessions of his rich neighbor,
but it is one of the commonplace sayings of the preacher that he would
not be. Wealth would not change his nature. His wants, his longings,
would still run on as before. It would be high water with him for a
season, but it could not last.
I have been told that, as a rule, the millionaires are the unhappiest
of men. Restless, suspicious, sated, ennuied, they are like a sick man
who can find no position in which he can rest. Our real and necessary
wants are so few and so easily met,--food, clothes, shelter! If a
little money will bring us such comfort, what will not riches do? So
we multiply our possessions many fold, hoping thereby to multiply
our happiness. But it does not work, or works inversely. Do you
suppose the millionaire’s little girl has any more pleasure with her
hundred-dollar doll than your washerwoman’s child has with her rag
baby? And what would not the millionaire himself give if he could eat
his rich dinner with the relish the day laborer has in eating his!
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