Flattery is _insincere_ praise given from interested motives, not the sincere utterance to a friend of what we deem good and lovely in him. And so, for fear of nattering, these dreadfully sincere people go on side by side with those they love and admire, giving them all the time the impression of utter indifference. Parents are so afraid of exciting pride and vanity in their children by the expression of their love and approbation, that a child sometimes goes sad and discouraged by their side, and learns with surprise, in some chance way, that they are proud and fond of him. There are times when the open expression of a father’s love would be worth more than church or sermon to a boy; and his father cannot utter it, will not show it. The other thing that represses the utterances of love is the characteristic _shyness_ of the Anglo-Saxon blood. Oddly enough, a race born of two demonstrative, out-spoken, nations--the German and the French--has an habitual reserve that is like neither. There is a powerlessness of utterance in our blood that we should fight against, and struggle outward towards expression. We can educate ourselves to it, if we know and feel the necessity; we can make it a Christian duty, not only to love, but to be loving,--not only to be true friends, but to _show_ ourselves friendly. We can make ourselves say the kind things that rise in our hearts and tremble back on our lips,--do the gentle and helpful deeds which we long to do and shrink back from; and, little by little, it will grow easier,--the love spoken will bring back the answer of love,--the kind deed will bring back a kind deed in return,--till the hearts in the family-circle, instead of being so many frozen, icy islands, shall be full of warm airs and echoing bird-voices answering back and forth with a constant melody of love. IV. PERSISTENCE. My little foxes are interesting little beasts; and I only hope my reader will not get tired of my charming menagerie before I have done showing him their nice points. He must recollect there are seven of them, and as yet we have shown up only three; so let him have patience. As before stated, little foxes are the little pet sins of us educated good Christians, who hope that we are above and far out of sight of stealing, lying, and those other gross evils against which we pray every Sunday, when the Ten Commandments are read. They are not generally considered of dignity enough to be fired at from the pulpit; they seem to us too trifling to be remembered in church; they are like the red spiders on plants,--too small for the perception of the naked eye, and only to be known by the shrivelling and dropping of leaf after leaf that ought to be green and flourishing.