“Wives in England are entirely in the power of their husbands,
their lives only excepted. Therefore when they marry, they give up
the surname of their father and of the family from which they are
descended, and take the surname of their husbands, except in the
case of duchesses, countesses, and baronesses, who, when they marry
gentlemen of inferior degree, retain their first name and title, which,
for the ambition of the said ladies, is rather allowed than commended.
But although the women are entirely in the power of their husbands
except for their lives, yet they are not kept so strictly as they are
in Spain, or elsewhere. Nor are they shut up, but they have the free
management of the house or housekeeping, after the fashion of those of
the Netherlands and others their neighbours. They go to market to buy
what they like best to eat. They are well-dressed, fond of taking it
easy, and commonly leave the care of household matters and drudgery
to their servants. They sit before their doors, decked out in fine
clothes, in order to see and be seen by the passers-by. In all banquets
and feasts they are shown the greatest honour; they are placed at
the upper end of the table, where they are the first served; at the
lower end they help the men. All the rest of their time they employ
in walking and riding, in playing at cards or otherwise, in visiting
their friends and keeping company, conversing with their equals (whom
they term gossips) and their neighbours, and making merry with them at
child-births, christenings, churchings, and funerals; and all this with
the permission and knowledge of their husbands, as such is the custom.
Although the husbands often recommend to them the pains, industry,
and care of the German or Dutch women, who do what the men ought to
do both in the house and in the shops, for which services in England
men are employed, nevertheless the women usually persist in retaining
their customs. This is why England is called the Paradise of married
women. The girls who are not yet married are kept much more rigorously
and strictly than in the Low Countries. The women are beautiful, fair,
well-dressed and modest, which is seen there more than elsewhere, as
they go about the streets without any covering either of mantle, hood,
veil, or the like. Married women only wear a hat both on the street
and in the house; those unmarried go without a hat, although ladies of
distinction have lately learnt to cover their faces with silken masks
or vizards, and feathers,—for indeed they change very easily, and that
every year, to the astonishment of many.”
If this was the ordinary life of the London merchant’s wife, the
following is the contemporary ideal (Gervase Markham):—
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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