“Next unto her sanctity and holiness of life, it is meet that our
English Housewife be a woman of great modesty and temperance, as well
inwardly as outwardly; inwardly, as in her behaviour and carriage
towards her husband, wherein she shall shun all violence of rage,
passion and humour, coveting less to direct than to be directed,
appearing ever unto him pleasant, amiable and delightful; and tho’
occasion of mishaps, or the mis-government of his will may induce her
to contrary thoughts, yet vertuously to suppress them, and with a
mild sufferance rather to call him home from his error, than with the
strength of anger to abate the least spark of his evil, calling into
her mind, that evil and uncomely language is deformed, though uttered
even to servants; but most monstrous and ugly, when it appears before
the presence of a husband; outwardly, as in her apparel, and dyet, both
which she shall proportion according to the competency of her husband’s
estate and calling, making her circle rather strait than large; for it
is a rule, if we extend to the uttermost, we take away increase; if
we go a hair’s breadth beyond, we enter into consumption; but if we
preserve any part, we build strong forts against the adversaries of
fortune, provided that such preservation be honest and conscionable;
for as lavish prodigality is brutish, so miserable covetousness is
hellish. Let therefore the Housewife’s garments be comely and strong,
made as well to preserve the health, as to adorn the person, altogether
without toyish garnishes, or the gloss of bright colours, and as far
from the vanity of new and fantastick fashions, as near to the comely
imitation of modest matrons. Let her dyet be wholesome and cleanly,
prepared at due hours, and cook’d with care and diligence, let it
be rather to satisfie nature, than her affections, and apter to
kill hunger than revive new appetites; let it proceed more from the
provision of her own yard, than the furniture of the markets; and let
it be rather esteemed for the familiar acquaintance she hath with it,
than for the strangeness and rarity it bringeth from other countries.
To conclude, our English Housewife must be of chaste thoughts, stout
courage, patient, untired, watchful, diligent, witty, pleasant,
constant in friendship, full of good neighbourhood, wise in discourse,
but not frequent therein, sharp and quick of speech, but not bitter
or talkative, secret in her affairs, comfortable in her counsels, and
generally skilful in the worthy knowledges which do belong to her
vocation.”
But to set against this is the testimony of the Elizabethan satirist
Philip Stubbes.
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