simplicity and absence of jealousy in their usages towards females. For
not only do those who are of the same family and household kiss them on
the mouth with salutations and embraces, but even those too who have
never seen them. And to themselves this appears by no means indecent.”
Again, when the Constable of Castile appeared at the Court of Whitehall
on Saturday afternoon, 18th August 1604, after kissing Her Majesty’s
hands he requested permission to salute the ladies of honour (twenty in
number, standing in a row, and beautiful exceedingly) according to the
custom of the country, and any neglect of which is taken as an affront.
Whereupon the Queen having given him leave, His Excellency complied
with the custom, much to the satisfaction of the ladies.
In Shakespeare’s _Henry VIII._, at the Cardinal’s banquet, the King
says to Anne Bullen:—
“Sweetheart,
I were unmannerly, to take you out,
And not to kiss you.”
In dancing it appears to have been the customary fee of a lady’s
partner. A further illustration of the custom may be seen. Foreigners
of the male sex, and especially Frenchmen, are in the more frequent
habit of kissing each other, and probably not the ladies. Misson, a
Frenchman who travelled in England about 1697, says: “The people of
England, when they meet, never salute one another, otherwise than by
giving one another their hands, and shaking them heartily; they no more
dream of pulling off their hats, than the women do of pulling off their
headcloths.”
The sin of great cities we may pass over; that of early marriage is
still, as it was in Stubbes’ time, a very terrible evil; the sin of
drunkenness is with us still, and is present in every country. The
side of charity that consists in giving doles to the poor was then
neglected, and is now destroyed. We still suffer from money-lenders,
though they can no longer conduct us to a life-long prison.
“Beleeve mee,” says Stubbes, “it greeveth mee to heare (walking in
the streats) the pitiful cryes, and miserable complaints of poore
prisoners in durance for debt, and like so to continue all their
life, destitute of libertie, meat, drink (though of the meanest
sorte), and clothing to their backs, lying in filthie strawe, and
lothsome dung, wursse than anie dogge, voide of all charitable
consolation and brotherly comfort in this World, wishing and
thyrsting after death to set them at libertie, and loose them from
their shackles, giues, and yron bands.” (Stubbes.)
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