Foreigners have revealed to us some very curious and rather startling
peculiarities of the custom of kissing as practised by our ancestors.
Thus as early as 1466 a Bohemian nobleman named Leo von Rozmital
visited England, and in the Journal of his Travel (1577) it is noted
that “it is the custom there, that on the arrival of a distinguished
stranger from foreign parts, maids and matrons go to the inn and
welcome him with gifts. Another custom is observed there, which is
that, when guests arrive at an inn, the hostess with all her family go
out to meet and receive them; and the guests are required to kiss them
all, and this among the English was the same as shaking hands among
other nations.” Erasmus, in 1499, wrote a Latin letter from England
to his friend Fausto Anfrelini, an Italian poet, exhorting him in a
strain of playful levity to think no more of his gout, but to betake
himself to England; for (he remarks) “here are girls with angels’
faces, so kind and obliging, that you would far prefer them to all
your Muses. Besides, there is a custom here never to be sufficiently
recommended. Wherever you come you are received with a kiss by all;
when you take your leave you are dismissed with kisses; you return,
kisses are repeated. They come to visit you, kisses again; they leave
you, you kiss them all round. Should they meet you anywhere, kisses in
abundance; in fine, wherever you move, there is nothing but kisses.” In
1527 Cardinal Wolsey was appointed Ambassador Extraordinary to France.
He was accompanied by George Cavendish, his gentleman usher, who wrote
a Life of the Cardinal. Cavendish had gone forward to prepare his
lord’s lodging. He says: “And I being there (at the Sire de Créqui’s
Castle at Moreuil, about twelve miles from Amiens) tarrying a while, my
lady Créqui issued out of her chamber into her dining chamber, where I
attended her coming, who received me very gently like her noble estate,
having a traine of twelve gentlewomen. And when she and her traine was
come all out, she saide unto me, ‘For as much,’ quoth she, ‘as ye be an
Englishman whose custome is to kisse all ladies and gentlemen in your
country without offense, although it is not soe here with us in this
realme, yet I will be so bould as kisse you, and soe ye shall doe all
my maids.’ By meanes whereof I kissed her and all her maides.” In the
narrative of the visit of the Spanish nobleman, the Duke de Najera,
in 1543–44, we are told that “after the dancing was finished (which
lasted several hours) the Queen entred again into her chamber, having
previously called one of the noblemen who spoke Spanish, to offer in
her name, some presents to the Duke, who again kissed her hand; and on
his requesting the same favour of the Princess Mary, she would by no
means permit it, but offered him her lips, and the Duke saluted her,
and did the same to all the other ladies.” A Greek traveller, Nicander
Nucius, came to England in 1545, and remarks: “They display great
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