“The procession accompanying a rural bride, of some consequence,
or of the middle rank, to church was as follows:—The bride, being
attired in a gown of sheep’s russet, and a kirtle of fine worsted,
her hair attired with a ‘billement of gold’ (decorated with long
chains of gold), and her hair as yellow as gold hanging down behind
her, which was curiously combed and plaited, was led to the church
between two sweet boys, with bride laces and rosemary tied about
their silken sleeves. There was carried before her a fair bride-cup
of silver, gilt, filled with hippocras and garnished with a goodly
branch of rosemary, which stands for constancy. The cup was hung
about with silken ribbands of all colours. Musicians followed, then
a group of maidens, some bearing bride-cakes, others garlands of
wheat finely gilded; and thus they passed on to the church.”
The wedding customs were very pretty. The bride, like all unmarried
women, wore a dress which exposed a portion of her bosom—you may
see how far the exposure went by looking at any portrait of Queen
Elizabeth; she wore her hair flowing. Some girls married very early,
even at fifteen, which was considered quite old enough to undertake the
duties of a wife. On the way to and from the church, wheat was thrown
on the head of the bride, just as rice is thrown now, as a symbol of
fruitfulness to follow. The wedding guests wore scarves, gloves, and
favours; cake—the bride-cake—was taken to the Church and distributed
after the ceremony; brooches were also given to the young men and
maidens present. Then the cup of wine was sent round: the “knitting”
cup, or the “contracting” cup; and then, carrying in her hand a piece
of gilt rosemary, the bride led the way home, where, for three days,
festivities, masques, mumming, music, dancing, feasting, and drinking
were carried on. In some of the churches special pews were provided
for newly married couples, who sat in them and listened, while the
preacher discoursed on “The Bride’s Bush” or “The Wedding Garment
Beautified.”
In 1584 the Puritans got in a Bill permitting to marry at all seasons
and on every day of the year. It had been the endeavour of the Bishops
to keep Lent as a season in which there was to be no marrying or giving
in marriage. Meantime, the keeping of Lent remained, if only as an
outward sign of revolt against the Puritans.
When there was a christening it was conducted in the mother’s bedroom.
After the service, the sponsors presented “Postle Spoons”; then, of
course, they sat down to a solid feast, or, at least, a drink—nothing
could be done without a drink; comfits were handed round with the wine,
and it was not unusual for some of the guests to go away royally drunk.
[Illustration: THE CHRISTENING OF PRINCE ARTHUR
From a historical print in the British Museum.]
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