Love—Marriage—Birth Control: Being a Speech delivered at the Church Congress at Birmingham, October, 1921Dawson, Bertrand Edward Dawson, Viscount
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Love—Marriage—Birth Control: Being a Speech delivered at the Church Congress at Birmingham, October, 1921
Dawson, Bertrand Edward Dawson, Viscount
Contraception; Sexual ethics
But the evils of excessive birth control are very real. There is first
the individual—every woman is better in body and mind for child
bearing—the periodic completion of the maternal cycle brings out the
best, preserves youth and maintains vital contact with life. Maternity
gives to woman her most beautiful attributes. Fancy being mad enough to
suppress it! If one watches the woman with one child and all maternity
finished before thirty, and compare her at forty with the woman of the
same age who has had, say, four children at proper intervals, who
usually has the advantage in preservation of youth and beauty? Not the
former.
On the other hand, it must be admitted that baby after baby every year
or eighteen months wears and often exhausts a woman’s strength. The
inference is that the use of birth control is good, its abuse bad.
Next, the children. Is it even necessary to refer to the failure of the
single-child household? Poor little thing! Surrounded by over-anxious
parents, spoilt, no children to play with, bored stiff by adults. And
then, perhaps, illness, and it may be death—and when it is too late to
produce another.
Of the many tragedies I met in the war none exceeded that attaching to
the loss of only children. It often means the end of all things; nothing
to live for—just blank despair.
THE WAY OF HAPPINESS.
The parents and the home both need children of varying ages. That is the
way of happiness and enduring youth.
And lastly, the national aspect may be stated very briefly. If England
is not to lose her place in the world her population must be maintained.
Unless fathers and mothers produce an average of over three children
that population will not be maintained.
If you say to a young husband and wife with their one or two children,
“Do you like to contemplate that when you both leave life your country
will, through your action, be worse off than when you entered life?”
that is an appeal to patriotism, and likely to be a successful appeal.
There are signs of a public opinion forming which will condemn the
selfishness of marriages without their proper heritage of children, but
such public opinion will not be strengthened by an indiscriminate
condemnation of birth control.
May I end my speech with an appeal that the Church approaches this
question, in common with certain others, in the light of modern
knowledge and the needs of a new world, and unhampered by traditions
which have outworn their usefulness?
PRINTED IN GREAT BRITAIN BY
THE WHITEFRIARS PRESS, LTD., LONDON AND TONBRIDGE.
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