When the Creator was busy in the minting-house He did not cast his
creatures all in the same mould, or coin them of the same metal. Some
people are of fine temperament, cram full of emotion; they are all
feeling, and express their feeling vigorously. Other people are of
baser metal. They are stolid, and pass through life neither contented
nor discontented with their lot; they are neither happy nor miserable.
They are well-regulated clocks running slowly down to the last tick, and
then ceasing to tick at all. Monotony is the bane of their existence,
blighting it with double dulness. They feel little and say nothing
about it. One never knows what hidden compensations life provides for
its multitudinous offspring. These torpid people must have a secret
well of satisfaction from which they dip refreshing draughts in thirsty
moments.
The child of emotion is more vivacious; he has colour, romance,
movement. He is of a rarer vintage; there is sparkle in the wine of
life. Occasionally the wine turns sour and drops flavour. Disagreeable
people do exist for some veiled purpose of Providence, as the species
never becomes extinct in the land. In infancy they were rocked in the
cradle of discontent, and they have seldom slept out of it since. They
have grown up in a nursery of their own. They are highly strung, and
have a genius for living in the moment--irritably. Their wit is
brilliant, it scintillates like running water in the sunshine, but it
cuts like a razor. Everybody within reach of their tongue, even innocent
people, feel the whip of their capricious temper. I suppose some grim
pleasure feeds their fiery nature when they subdue friend and enemy
under them. It is an unenviable pleasure which they enjoy; nobody
shares with them, and when their ill-humour dies down it must leave a
nasty taste in their mouth.
If you want to be happy, do not expect too much from life. Do not ask
more from friendship than you give, for eventually the balance is sure
to adjust itself. Do not ask more than your share of good things; if
you do exceed the limit, disappointment will dog your footsteps all the
day. You cannot expect to be always happy. Trouble and sorrow come to
all of us, with a difference. Some people extract comfort out of
trouble, and it assuages their grief; others add worry to their woe, and
it aggravates their vexation of spirit.
Motor-cars carry a little dynamo on board and generate their own
electric current as they travel, and after dark, with the great
headlights glowing, they travel pleasantly and safe. A contented mind
is a dynamo we can carry with us, and it generates its own happiness as
we travel. It illumines the journey of life and makes it pleasant to
ourselves and agreeable to friends travelling in our company.
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