I met recently a grey-haired man who was a schoolboy friend of mine. A
wide sundering gap of years lies between us since our previous meeting,
but at once we grasped hands and knew each other intimately, although
mid-life with each had been filled with a fulness the other knew nothing
of. As boys we chummed together, and now we renewed our ancient
friendship on olden lines. We had studied the same lessons, slept in
the same dormitory, sculled in the same boat, fought in the same
playground scrimmages, and, having met again after long intervening
years, we had endless youthful reminiscences in common to discuss and
life-histories to relate. There was no need to sit on the safety-valve
to throttle down the conversation. Talk came, a flowing stream bubbling
up from the hot springs of the heart. Our meeting had the perfume of
romance clinging to it, which made golden the precious hours in the
spending. Two grey-haired men chattering with their heads together for
the nonce were merry schoolboys. The present was forgotten; the past
was everything to them while the old enthusiasms flared up brightly and
shot a warm rosy afterglow athwart life’s pleasant evening hour.
Loafing is a privilege of one’s declining years. It is an agreeable
form of laziness which sits well upon old shoulders. It is that mellow
state of stagnant content which pervades the mind when the natural force
abates. I do not extol it as a virtue, I claim it as a privilege. It
helps to fill gaps in the daily round when business no longer engages
your attention and office hours are a dread ordeal done with for ever.
Having dropped out of the marching line and become a spectator of the
passing show, what more natural than that you manifest a livelier
curiosity in other people’s activities than in your own sluggish
movements. I love to spend a sunny morning lingering on the old garden
seat, chatting to a friend, or watching the energetic youngsters at play
amongst the roses. I find it enjoyable to take my pitch on the pierhead
with the gay summer crowd ambling along, passing and repassing my post
of observation, and watch the pretty and well-accoutred girls angling
for admiration, and the budding men in spotless flannels flashing
answering glances to catch the lasses’ eyes; an endless conversation
going on without voices whispering a word; they look at each other and
laugh, and the incipient mystery of the thing slips into their blood.
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