Making the Most of LifeMiller, J. R. (James Russell)
Philosophy
Making the Most of Life
Miller, J. R. (James Russell)
Christian life
One of these letters is from a Christian man whose only son has been
led into sinful courses, swiftly descending to the saddest depths. The
story is too painful to be repeated in these pages. In his sore
distress, the father, a godly man, a man of strong faith and noble
wisdom, cries out: "What is the comfort even of Christ and the Bible
for me? How can I roll this burden of mine upon God?"
In answer to these questions it must be remembered that there are some
things which even the richest, divinest comfort cannot do. For one
thing, it cannot take away the pain of grief or sorrow. Our first
thought of comfort usually is that it shall lift off our burden. We
soon learn, however, that it is not in this way that comfort ordinarily
comes. It does not make the grief any less. It does not make our
hearts any less sensitive to anguish. "Consolation implies rather an
augmentation of the power of bearing than a diminution of the burden."
In this case, it cannot lift off the loving father's heart the burden
of disappointment and anguish which he experiences in seeing his son
swept away in the currents of temptation. No possible comfort can do
this. The perfect peace in which God promises to keep those whose
minds are stayed on him, is not a painless peace in any case of
suffering. The crushed father cannot expect a comfort which will make
him forget his wandering, sinning child, or which will cause him to
feel no longer the poignant anguish which the boy's course causes in
his heart. Father-love must be destroyed to make such comforting
possible, and that would be a sorer calamity than any sorrow.
The comfort in such a grief, is that which comes through faith in God
even in the sore pain. The child was given to God in his infancy, and
was brought up as God's child along his early years. Who will say that
he may not yet, in some way, at some time, be brought back to God? The
daily burden may then daily be laid in the divine hands. The heart's
anguish may express itself not in despairing cries, but in believing
prayers, inspired by the promises, and kindled into fervency by blessed
hope. Then peace will come, not painless peace, but peace which lies
on Christ's bosom in the darkness, and loves and trusts and asks no
questions, but waits with all of hope's expectancy.
At the same time we are never to forget, while we trust God for the
outcome of our disappointments, that every sorrow has its mission to
our life. There is something he desires it to work in us. What it may
be in any particular instance we cannot tell; nor is it wise for us to
ask. The wisest, truest thing we can do is reverently to open our
hearts to the ministry of the sorrow, asking God to do his will in us,
not allowing us to hinder the beautiful work he would do, and helping
us to rejoice even in the grief. The tears may continue to flow, but
then with Mrs. Browning we can sing:--
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