Margaret Sanger: an autobiography.Sanger, Margaret
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Margaret Sanger: an autobiography.
Sanger, Margaret
Birth control -- United States -- Biography; Sanger, Margaret, 1879-1966
Whenever the conversation of the guests interested him, Pepet entered in
quite as naturally as though he were sitting and being served instead of
serving. In any other country this would have been resented as
insolence, but here every courtesy and respect was shown to him just as
he showed it to others. If you said you were going to go by a certain
tram to a certain place to be there at three in the afternoon, he
interrupted, “Pardon me, Señora, you do not need to be there until
four-thirty, and it is much better to go by this other route.”
Like the rest I said, “Right, Pepet, we shall take your advice.”
With the expulsion of the Jews from Spain vanished the driving force for
commercial initiative, a quality, fortunately or unfortunately, greatly
lacking in the country. Pérez Galdós said:
The capital defect of the Spaniards of your time is that you live
exclusively the life of words, and the language is so beautiful that
the delight in the sweet sound of it woos you to sleep. You speak
too much. You lavish without stint a wealth of phrases to conceal
the poverty of your actions.
I did not believe this entirely true, but without doubt the Spanish had
a maddening habit of procrastination. It was “Sí, Sí, Señora, assuredly,
certainly,” all gracious promising—and then nothing happening. To an
American this was especially aggravating, because he was always in a
constant hurry; he expected to see and know the whole of Spain in a
month. But the Spaniard was not to be rushed. When asked what time it
was, he might reply, “Perhaps four hours more of the sun.”
This defiance of clocks and the absence of strain and bustle pleased me
personally. A story was told of a Spaniard going to seek his fortune in
South America. After finding a position to his satisfaction he worked
three hours and then suddenly asked for his pay. When his employer
requested the cause of his abrupt leave-taking, he exclaimed angrily,
“Do you think I’m going to spend all my life working for you?”
Don Quixote truly represented the Spanish temperament. The strong
enthusiasm which was shown for a project and the still stronger
imagination which not only saw the matter begun but also finished, was
Spanish to the last degree. The knight of La Mancha thought nothing of
invading cities and fighting giants, but it ended in thinking about it.
“I consider all that already done.”
Spanish character, so paradoxical, so attractive, and often so difficult
to understand, fascinated me. I could exhaust myself in
adjectives—fickle, impetuous, rich-souled, ascetic, passionate,
realistic, individualistic. Courtesy and ceremony were second nature to
the Catalans of Barcelona, supposed to be the most dangerous and lawless
city in Europe, where thousands of anarchists gathered and plotted and
where bombs were thrown wrapped up in flowers.
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