Margaret Sanger: an autobiography.Sanger, Margaret
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Margaret Sanger: an autobiography.
Sanger, Margaret
Birth control -- United States -- Biography; Sanger, Margaret, 1879-1966
The American woman is apt to say, “Anything I can do for you, let me
know,” and then go away, her conscience relieved. The Englishwoman
states definitely that she can get up a meeting, bring you in touch with
so and so, give you money, or get money for you. Edith How-Martyn in her
quiet manner said to me, “I think what you have told us today should
have a larger audience. Will you give a lecture if we arrange it for
you? We’ll do the donkey work; all you have to do is speak.”
In a few days the time and place were set. I was to appear in Fabian
Hall the following month under my own name.
The chairs in the auditorium were wooden and the interior was
unheated—not like an American hall. The audience was quite different
from the little Socialist gatherings of working women I had addressed at
home. The atrocious and hideous English hats gave it an intellectual and
highly respectable air. These representatives of nearly every social and
civic organization in London, had the rationalist attitude and preferred
to listen to principles and theories. I told them what I had been trying
to do through the _Woman Rebel_ and explained my private and personal
conception of what Feminism should mean; that is, women should first
free themselves from biological slavery, which could best be
accomplished through birth control. This was, generally speaking, the
introduction of the term into England.
Many came up and talked to me afterwards, among them Marie Stopes, a
paleontologist who had made a reputation with work on coal. Would I come
to her home and discuss the book she was writing?
Over the teacups I found her to have an open, frank manner that quite
won me. She took me into her confidence at once, stating her marriage
had been unconsummated, and for that reason she was securing an
annulment. Her book, _Married Love_, was based largely on her own
experiences and the unhappiness that came to people from ignorance and
lack of understanding in wedlock, and she hoped it would help others.
She was extremely interested in the correlation of marital success to
birth control knowledge, although she admitted she knew nothing about
the latter. Could I tell her exactly what methods were used and how? In
spite of my belief that the Netherlands clinics could be improved upon,
I was fired with fervor for the idea as such, and described them as I
had seen them.
Later when I came back to the United States, I brought with me the
manuscript of _Married Love_, and tried every established publisher in
New York, receiving a rejection from each. Finally I induced Dr. William
J. Robinson to publish it under the auspices of his _Critic and Guide_,
a monthly magazine which took up many subjects the _Journal_ of the
American Medical Association would not touch. Unfortunately even here it
had to be expurgated. When I cabled Dr. Stopes I had a publisher in New
York, her new husband, H. V. Roe, financed an unabridged English edition
which appeared simultaneously.
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