Margaret Sanger: an autobiography.Sanger, Margaret
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Margaret Sanger: an autobiography.
Sanger, Margaret
Birth control -- United States -- Biography; Sanger, Margaret, 1879-1966
The other wives and I spent our afternoons conferring over the momentous
problems of servants, gardens, and schools. If we went to town, we took
the children with us, fitting them with special shoes at Coward’s,
introducing them to museums, libraries, or art galleries. Life centered
around them. When Stuart and his little friends began to ask questions,
“Where do babies come from?” I collected them and tried to answer, using
the simple phenomena of nature as illustrations—flowers, frogs, fish,
and animals. I still consider this approach has its place with many
children, although modern sex educationists may smile at this method,
thinking it old-fashioned.
None of the colony played cards. Instead, the women formed a literary
club where we read papers on George Eliot, Browning, and Shakespeare, as
well as on some current authors, and we had occasional political
discussions. Out of this grew the Women’s Club of Hastings.
It was all very pleasant, and at first I was busy and contented. The
endless details of housekeeping did not seem to me drudgery; conquering
minor crises was exciting. Though I was never slavishly domestic, I was
inclined to be slavishly maternal. Bill was a devoted husband. He took
care of me in the little ways—starting for the train and coming back to
put his head in the door and call, “It’s awfully cold. Don’t go out
without your wrap,” or, if it were hot, he offered, “Give me your list
and I’ll send up the groceries.”
I was again leading the life of an artist’s family. Bill was a hard
worker; I can rarely remember one evening of just reading together. I
did the reading and he drew or painted. But I was never quite sure
whether we were rich or poor. He possessed the finest qualities of
creative genius, and with them some of its limitations and liabilities.
When he was paid for a big commission he brought me orchids and
embroidered Japanese robes which I had no occasion to wear, and filled
the house with luxuries. This did not go with my practical sense. If the
grocery account were long unpaid, I protested, “They’re beautiful. Thank
you, but can we afford them?”
“Certainly,” and out of his pocket came tickets for the opera or
theater, his chief pleasures.
“But we shouldn’t,” I remonstrated as I ruffled a sheaf of bills before
him.
Nevertheless, we used the tickets.
Every architect wants to embody his ideas at least once in his own home.
Ours was “modern” in its square simplicity and unadorned surfaces of
stuccoed hollow tile, even being called a show house; people came from
afar to study it. It was designed to have a large nursery opening on a
veranda overlooking the Hudson, a studio, a bath with each bedroom,
fireplaces everywhere, and one especially capacious in the big library.
From this room the open stairway, forking at the lower landing with a
few steps leading down into the kitchen, reached up the wall to the
second story.
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