Mary Russell Mitford and her surroundingsHill, Constance
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Mary Russell Mitford and her surroundings
Hill, Constance
Authors, English -- 19th century -- Biography; Mitford, Mary Russell, 1787-1855; Women intellectuals -- Great Britain -- Biography
“Something wonderful and admirable it was,” she writes, “to see how
these dukes and duchesses, marshals and marquises, chevaliers and
bishops bore up under their unparalleled reverses! How they laughed,
and talked, and squabbled, and flirted, constant to their high heels,
their rouge and their furbelows, to their old _liésons_, their polished
sarcasms and their cherished rivalries! They clung even to their
_mariages de convenance_; and the very habits which would most have
offended our English notions, if we had seen them in their splendid
hotels of the Faubourg St. Germain, won tolerance and pardon when mixed
up with such unaffected constancy and such cheerful resignation.”
There were supper parties also given to other members of the French
society by a cousin of Mary Mitford’s who had married an _émigré_ of
high birth and who resided in Brunswick Square. Mary often spent the
interval between Saturday afternoon and Monday morning with these
relatives. “Saturday was their regular French day,” she writes, “when
in the evening the conversation, music, games, manners and cookery
were studiously and decidedly French. Trictrac superseded chess or
backgammon, reversi took the place of whist, Gretry of Mozart, Racine
of Shakespeare; omelettes and salads, champagne moussu, and _eau sucré_
excluded sandwiches, oysters and porter.
“At these suppers their little school-girl visitor,” she says,
“assisted, though at first rather in the French than the English sense
of the word. I was present indeed, but had as little to do as possible
either with speaking or eating.... However, in less than three months I
became an efficient consumer of good things, and said ‘oui, monsieur,’
and ‘merci, madame,’ as often as a little girl of twelve years old
ought to say anything.
“I confess, however, that it took more time to reconcile me to the
party round the table than to the viands with which it was covered. In
truth they formed a motley group, reminding me now of a masquerade and
then of a puppet show. I shall attempt to sketch a few of them as they
then appeared to me, beginning, as etiquette demands, with the duchess.
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