Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr. — John Shaqi
Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
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Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.
Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Unitarians -- United States -- Biography; Ware, Mary L. (Mary Lovell), 1798-1849
Remaining in Boston, with little change, until she was thirteen years of
age, Mary Pickard was then taken by her parents to Hingham,
Massachusetts, to be under the care of the Misses Cushing, whose school
for girls enjoyed at that time, and as long as it continued, a very high
reputation. Her instructors there, who still live, seem to have regarded
her as a friend and companion, rather than a child and pupil; and the
fresh recollections and tender love with which they always speak of her,
and delight to dwell upon her early and mature character, give us an
impression of more than common excellence. This will best be shown by an
extract from a letter written since her death to one of her children.
"Your dear mother came to us first in June, 1811; a sweet,
interesting girl, thirteen years old, tall for that age, and
with the same sweet expression of countenance she ever
retained; remarkable even then for her disinterestedness and
forgetfulness of self, and her power of gaining the love of all
around her. She went home in November of the same year, and
returned to us again in 1814.... She was with us but little
more than one year in the whole, and in that short period
endeared herself to us in a remarkable manner. For with the
love which we could not but feel for her was mingled a respect
and admiration for her high principles, and the piety which
shone through all her conduct, in a degree very uncommon for a
girl of her age. As a scholar she was exceedingly bright, and
quick to comprehend, and would, I always thought, have made an
excellent mathematical scholar, had she pursued the study of
that branch. Her capacity for accomplishing a great deal in a
short time was always remarkable, and I believe she never
undertook any thing that she thought worth her attention, that
she did not go through to the satisfaction of others, if not of
herself. Her chief object, even when a young girl, seemed to be
to do good, in some way or other, to her fellow-beings, and she
considered nothing too difficult for her to undertake, if it
could benefit another person either in a temporal or moral
view. You have had sufficient evidence of this, since you have
been old enough to judge for yourself, and I can only tell you
that it seemed to be, at an early period of her life, a living
principle with her. Yet, with all this devotedness to the
highest objects and purposes of our existence, she was one of
the most lively and playful girls among her companions, and a
very great favorite with them all."
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