Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Religion
Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.
Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Unitarians -- United States -- Biography; Ware, Mary L. (Mary Lovell), 1798-1849
In our times, and in a position like Mr. Ware's, there were sure to be
numerous calls and claims abroad as well as at home, and for a woman not
less than a man. We have not inquired as to the names or number of the
benevolent societies and industrial enterprises in Cambridge, in which
Mrs. Ware took part. That she gained any notoriety in this way, we
should be surprised to hear, both from her multiplicity of duties, and
her preference of private to public activity. Yet that her influence
was felt, her judgment peculiarly relied upon, and her presence always
welcomed, in these connections, we know. Cases of moral want and
exposure interested her most, and we have reason to think that she was
never without some such case on her hands or in her heart. What she
could not do herself, in the gift of time or clothes or money, she
always induced others to do, _never_ suffering an object of actual want
or peril to go unassisted. Very far was she above the poor apology, that
to do any thing for one sufferer will create more. In a multitude of
small notes given us, written by her to various neighbors and friends,
we chanced to see in one, so small as at first to be overlooked, a few
words that fixed attention; and on reading it through, we found, in the
compass of a few lines, a whole volume of illustration as to her
interest, her courage, and her power of indignation for selfish excuses.
We give it just as it was written to a neighbor, another right-minded
woman.
"I have company, therefore cannot answer you at length, or as I
wish. I should have stepped in to see you this afternoon, if I
had not been prevented by callers, to say a few words upon the
subject of the latter part of your note. I have to-day got at
the poor man's wardrobe for the first time, and determined to
_beg_ for some means to supply it with a few decencies, for
even they are wanting. Mr. Ware has thought it quite allowable
to state the case to one or two of our rich men, to raise
enough to pay the expenses of his journey; and I have just
resolved to undertake the other matter. But I am full of
wrathful indignation at being _sneered at_ for taking him in.
'You will have enough English beggars at your door, if you do
so.' A good argument against relieving any distress! So let the
poor suffer as much as they may,--no relief,--for others will
be idle and want relief too!--M. L. W."
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