Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
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Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.
Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Unitarians -- United States -- Biography; Ware, Mary L. (Mary Lovell), 1798-1849
Mr. Ware was able to remain in office the rest of the theological term,
and to carry through the graduating class, with whom his last exercises
were deeply affecting. Very soon after this, in the summer of 1842, the
family left Cambridge; having fixed upon Framingham, Mass., as their
place of retreat, after looking at many places, and weighing all
considerations of position and expense.
Of the last days in Cambridge, we have obtained the recollections of
their oldest son, himself a member of the class just spoken of, as the
last that enjoyed the instruction and benediction of his father. We give
the account in his own unstudied words.
"That last summer was a very pleasant one, as I remember it.
Things were very much as ever; if any thing, the little social
gatherings of neighbors were more frequent, as all felt they
must be few. The drives with father to find a place, the
selection of Framingham, the pilgrimages there, occupied a good
deal of the time, as also the gradual preparation, and the many
adieus. The 'breaking up' was one of the gravest trials of
mother's life. Thoroughly convinced of its necessity, looking
forward to it as a relief in all ways, yet the whole summer was
tinged by the thought of it. I remember long talks; one in
particular, in which she drew nearer to me and I to her. I
think that, feeling obliged to keep up before father, she
yearned to confide in us. When it came to the last, it was
hard. The children and all were gone. Mother, father, and I
were left, and I was to be left, for I was just going into the
world myself. The wagon was at the door. Father got in, merely
wringing my hand, but most deeply moved. I could see it and
feel it. If he had spoken, it would have been more than he
could bear. I never till that moment imagined, so feverish had
been his desire to get away, how much his heart was in that
spot. Mother was behind, and had got down one step, when she
turned round and threw her arms about my neck, and there we
stood. It was one of the _moments_ of life. 'God bless you, my
child!' I have heard her say it many times, but it never meant
more. Father could not bear it. He urged her away; the horse
started at his quick word; I was alone,--and that chapter of
life was ended! We never all three of us entered Cambridge
together again, until the night that mother and I brought with
us from Framingham 'the last of earth.'
"Since writing this, I have chanced upon father's first letter
afterward. He says: 'The struggle at the last moment was a hard
one; but we got composed after a while, and then found
ourselves excessively overcome with weariness.'"
XII.
LIFE IN FRAMINGHAM.
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