Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
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Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.
Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Unitarians -- United States -- Biography; Ware, Mary L. (Mary Lovell), 1798-1849
It is no cause of regret that the narrative of a married woman's life
cannot be separated from that of her husband. The biographer may regret
the necessity of referring to familiar facts, and sometimes using
materials already in possession of the public. But more sorry should we
be if the history of the _wife_ could be drawn out by itself; especially
that history of every-day life, and idea of the inner being, which we
are attempting to give. Few women, in our community, and with "troops of
friends," have been more thrown upon themselves at an early age, or have
led a more truly single life until life's meridian, than did Mary
Pickard. But the moment she became Mary Ware she lived for another,--as
unreservedly and devotedly as woman ever did. Principle and affection
alone would have prompted this, as a pleasure; the circumstances in
which she was placed, from first to last, made it a duty, and still a
delight. And more and more, as years passed, did the duty and the
delight grow, tinged only by the sad thought of _his_ premature failure
and sore disappointment.
It, is a small trial to be summoned from one sphere of duty to another;
even if it cost the disruption of many ties, still if it be a call of
duty, with continued power of activity and usefulness, it is not to be
called a hardship. It surely is no evil, but rather a privilege, for the
faithful laborer to die at his post, with his harness on. But to die and
yet to live, to have one's chosen work broken off for ever, and the
strong, disinterested love of labor forbidden all exercise, with the
prospect of years of helplessness at the best, perhaps protracted
suffering and a dependent family,--this is trial, calling for as much of
fortitude and faith as humanity often requires. It may be partiality
which leads us to doubt whether there was ever _more_ of fortitude and
faith, in similar condition, than in the hearts of Henry and Mary Ware,
as they turned their back upon the fond scenes of their labor, and, with
the unavoidable consciousness of high qualification as well as
affection, withdrew from all public service and peculiar trust. Nor is
it too much to assume, that, while on him pressed most heavily the
burden of responsibility and the grief of incapacity, it was to the wife
and the mother that there came most loudly the call for exertion, for
cheerful courage, a wise diligence, and unfaltering trust.
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