Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
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Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.
Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Unitarians -- United States -- Biography; Ware, Mary L. (Mary Lovell), 1798-1849
The village to which they retired was chosen partly for its seclusion
combined with convenience, and partly for economy. In relation to the
last, their anxieties were now relieved by a generous contribution from
friends, whom it would have been wrong to refuse; though similar offers
had been made and declined before, as we ought to have said in referring
to their embarrassments. So long as there was the power of exertion, or
a reasonable hope of it, Mr. Ware could not bring himself to accept any
mere favors of this kind,--seldom so grateful as a fair requital for
willing service and acknowledged ability. But now that the power of
exertion was suspended, duty to those nearest, as well as gratitude to
persevering benefactors, made him more than willing. "I have got rid,
through the kindness of excellent friends, of all distressful anxiety
for the living of my family; I can leave them in comparative peace; in
that sense, my house is set in order." Thus did Mr. Ware write to his
brother John, in that earnest letter in which he begs him, as a
physician, to deal frankly with him, and tell him the whole truth as to
the probability of his recovery or decline. And this was the state of
mind in which the life at Framingham began, and continued to the end,--a
state of suspense, entire uncertainty, unwillingness to be idle, but
inability to enter confidently upon any plan, or engage vigorously in
any employment. There is little, therefore, to be told of this period,
in regard to occupation or incident. We can only show in what spirit
Mrs. Ware met this new trial,--to many minds the hardest of all,--living
without an object, yet striving to live cheerfully, busily, and
profitably.
This may be shown best by giving brief extracts from her letters,
written during the first season of their residence there.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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