Memorials and Other Papers — Volume 1 — John Shaqi
Memorials and Other Papers — Volume 1De Quincey, Thomas
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Memorials and Other Papers — Volume 1
De Quincey, Thomas
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Meantime Lord Massey was reached by reports, both through Lady Carbery
and myself, of something which interested him more profoundly than all
earthly records of horsemanship, or any conceivable questions connected
with books. Lady Carbery, with a view to the amusement of Lady Massey
and my sister, for both of whom youth and previous seclusion had created
a natural interest in all such scenes, accepted two or three times in
every week dinner invitations to all the families on her visiting list,
and lying within her winter circle, which was measured, by a radius of
about seventeen miles. For, dreadful as were the roads in those days,
when the Bath, the Bristol, or the Dover mail was equally perplexed
oftentimes to accomplish Mr. Palmer's rate of seven miles an hour, a
distance of seventeen was yet easily accomplished in one hundred minutes
by the powerful Laxton horses. Magnificent was the Laxton turn-out;
and in the roomy travelling coach of Lady Carbery, made large enough to
receive upon occasion even a bed, it would have been an idle scruple to
fear the crowding a party which mustered only three besides myself. For
Lord Massey uniformly declined joining us; in which I believe that he
was right. A schoolboy like myself had fortunately no dignity to lose.
But Lord Massey, a needy Irish peer (or, strictly speaking, since the
Union no peer at all, though still an hereditary lord), was bound to be
trebly vigilant over his surviving honors. This he owed to his country
as well as to his family. He recoiled from what he figured to himself
(but too often falsely figured) as the haughty and disdainful English
nobility---all so rich, all so polished in manner, all so punctiliously
correct in the ritual of _bienséance_. Lord Carbery might face them
gayly and boldly: for _he_ was rich, and, although possessing Irish
estates and an Irish mansion, was a thorough Englishman by education
and early association. "But I," said Lord Massey, "had a careless Irish
education, and am never quite sure that I may not be trespassing on some
mysterious law of English good-breeding." In vain I suggested to him
that most of what passed amongst foreigners and amongst Irishmen for
English _hauteur_ was pure reserve, which, among all people that were
bound over by the inevitable restraints of their rank (imposing, it must
be remembered, jealous duties as well as privileges), was sure to become
the operative feeling. I contended that in the English situation there
was no escaping this English reserve, except by great impudence and
defective sensibility; and that, if examined, reserve was the truest
expression of respect towards those who were its objects. In vain did
Lady Carbery back me in this representation. He stood firm, and never
once accompanied us to any dinner-party. Northamptonshire, I know not
why, is (or then was) more thickly sown with aristocratic families than
any in the kingdom. Many elegant and pretty women there naturally
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